Don't read if you can't hand some cuss words and the truth!
Ok Can I just VENT for a little While.... I have to say FIRST this is NOT directed to anyone or any thing! This is something that is just bothering me! I must say that what is the big rush for everyone wanting to get married and settle down???? WTF!! you are 20 something! you have so much more life a head of you! I can understand wanting to be with someone for the rest of your life and wanting to show the love and affection that you have for each other. BUT WHY SO SOON!?!?!??!?!?!???? I dont get it! I know that falling in love is fun and being with a guy on holidays and having someone to care for you is important. but why do so many people my age so Fucking egar to get married as soon as possible!??? When you meet someone and youmay like him. By the second date you are already on love with him and talking about wanting to get married. I dont even see what the BIG deal is. YA BLA BHAL BLAH BLAH BLAH I dont get it cause I am not with somone that is serious. Well I am seeing someone and its not serious. BUT I DONT WANT IT TO BE SERIOUS!!!! I dont want it to get serious! I like hanging out with him whe I have time and we have a few things in common. BUT I am not close to wanting to get married any time SOON! I am not even saying that I am looking forward to getting married when I am 23!! what the FUCK is up with putting a time line on when you want to get married!?!??!?!?!?! another thing that really bothers me is when people do have a serious relationship and the have had the marriage talk or not, But there are real feelings involved and then for one reason or another they They breakup. I dont know what an example is. But what happens is the girl goes and gets all clingy and want to try and work things out and get back together........ Can I just say that thats messed up. If you broke up there was a good reason that you did!!! you need to just get over them. If while you are away from them and you realize that you can't live with out them and they can't live with out you. ONLY AND ONLY in that situation should you try to work out that problem and EVEN BEGIN to think about getting back together. But if only one party wants to get back with them and the other is wishy washy or not sure or says I am just not ready now. Then have your cry and have some icecream and hang out with you friends and GET OVER THEM!!!! Don't keep trying to get back with them by manipulating the situation!!! It isn't easy and its gonna SUCK ASS!!! But thats what girl friends or guys that are JUST friends are for. Thats what a half gallon (of moose tracks with all the toppings) a couple spoons your friend(s) and Guy bashing is for!!! For crying OUT LOUD YOU ARE 20 21 22 and Some younger/Older than that! WHAT IS THE BIG RUSH?? When it happens you will know it, it should be the easiest Desision you ever make. If you have any doubts or and second thought. Not just you but you partner. You may think ohh it is an easy answer. But maybe this is your first love or your first love in a serious relationship. It may even be your 3rd or 4th love.... WHO KNOWS. But whe you both know and you both are mature enough to handle a marriage. With all that applys THEN DO IT! Get married! But wait until you are older. You have lived on your own for while. (With out parents help. your own insurance, your own car... etc.). Then settle down. When you have all of you single or nonmarried person wants to do before they are married. IE... Skydiving, RoadTrip, Going to California, Vegas, Italy, England, Get through college and get a job out of your degree! Even if when you get married you dont do that. Because of kids or whatever! It ok! But finish your dreams first is what I am saying! you will have hopefully TONS of wanderful years together! Why rush the next 1 or 2 o3 trying to get married. Just thinkyou could be with this person possible until you are 100!! you are 20 something now thats 80 years away!!!!!! YOU have more than enough time!!!!! If someone can tell me why its so DAMNED important that in the next few years you get married??? Get your life in order have some stability BY YOURSELF!!! I think I made my Point Clear... No sense in beating a dead horse. Like I said in the begining. This is NOT directed towards anyone or any sitution. It just seems to me that like 1/2 of the people I know and people you dont know are just thinking that this is somthing that has to be delt with NOW or ASAP! Ok seriously I am Done.