question..

[i_know_ninjas]

when i was just in highschool,
i was in the in-crowd
which was the group
who were athletes
and partiers
i had fiends, but not close ones
the older girls took me
under their wings
while girls my age
were intimidated
of me
x
i still see it, and it sucks

what makes me intimidating?

Comments

[vegstastebetter]

people tend to be intimidated by people who are intelligent.
and people tend be intimidated by people who they wish they could be more like.

don't know if that applies to anyone you know, but you are smart and you're also one rockin' person ;)

[nodgarden]

the sneer you're making in your lj icon ;]

[mizbingle]

no shit.

[i_know_ninjas]

hah, but you icon is si much more intimidating..

[dianarchy]

had fiends, but not close ones
I'm glad your 'fiends' weren't close ;)

what makes me intimidating?
Your intelligence, perhaps.

[anonymous]

everyone has different control issues, and your personal strength can come across intimidating to people with shaky confidence.....i have seen it happen...

Kyle is a good example.

[orionsbelt]

everyone has different control issues, and your personal strength can come across intimidating to people with shaky confidence.....i have seen it happen...

Kyle is a good example.

well, hm

[i_know_ninjas]

now wait, kyle as in being one thats intimidated, or intimidating?
i guessing you mean y the way he treated me, as him being intimidated by me? but i still don't see how i can be intimidating to him, or a lot of people.

maybe people just have less backbone than i think..

Re: well, hm

[orionsbelt]

yeah he was intimidated by you. a lot of things were probably making him feel weaker than you so he had to disrespect you like that.

everyone has their own specific issue with control, and most people show their issue in slight intial distrust allowing them to feel vulnerable to someone else's strengths.

Re: well, hm

[i_know_ninjas]

but was it me he was intimidated by, or my relationship with you? and threatened by that relationship? cos i see that more than just by me, i don't get it. do i have some attributes which intimidated him?

i don't like to scare people away.
i don't like poeple's reactions to their fear of me.
i'm so sick of this shit,
and i'm ready to leave tomorrow if i could.