Oxymoron.

[i_am_a_shogun]

You hurt (unknowingly, or knowingly, but you just don't care) the person you love, believing that the person you care for will understand. They do, most of the time. Because they too understand, most of the time. But they hurt too, most of the time.

But simple words of endearment will change all that. I don't get it either, but who understands love anyway?