Being Single...
Being single is not a choice as many of us tried getting ourselves attached for the wrong reasons.
A recent conversation sparked my thoughts on the reasons to get attached. What was conveyed was that he thinks he is not dashing and tall enough to attract. Aren't these reasons too familiar in the scene? How many times have we not heard guys exclaiming at how cute or how gorgeous the guy over there is, or how nice his bod is etc. Tanktops and tight-fitting clothes strive in terms of marketability with the GREAT assistance of gym memberships.
Maybe, attaining those above pre-requisites are essential to get a partner, or even to have a much-needed glance from someone, along the street or in the clubs.
Yes, it's true, physicality attract, then one dwells further to know a person well. Either it turns out well and blossoms into a long-term relationships, or short-term after the physical attractiveness wears off and push factors such as idiosyncracies surfaced, constant quarrels over minor things etc.
Another incident, infidelity seeps in as more gorgeous prey came along. That's why some might say, getting attached is not the best but more of tolerance - 'because I love him too much to break up with him' or, 'this is a fact of gay life'
Guess, it really takes life lessons to mature a person to go beyond certain aspects of disillusion before, 'dwelling' further into the personality and character precedes physical attributes. It takes time, but attainable because we are God-given gift - Patience.
A recent conversation sparked my thoughts on the reasons to get attached. What was conveyed was that he thinks he is not dashing and tall enough to attract. Aren't these reasons too familiar in the scene? How many times have we not heard guys exclaiming at how cute or how gorgeous the guy over there is, or how nice his bod is etc. Tanktops and tight-fitting clothes strive in terms of marketability with the GREAT assistance of gym memberships.
Maybe, attaining those above pre-requisites are essential to get a partner, or even to have a much-needed glance from someone, along the street or in the clubs.
Yes, it's true, physicality attract, then one dwells further to know a person well. Either it turns out well and blossoms into a long-term relationships, or short-term after the physical attractiveness wears off and push factors such as idiosyncracies surfaced, constant quarrels over minor things etc.
Another incident, infidelity seeps in as more gorgeous prey came along. That's why some might say, getting attached is not the best but more of tolerance - 'because I love him too much to break up with him' or, 'this is a fact of gay life'
Guess, it really takes life lessons to mature a person to go beyond certain aspects of disillusion before, 'dwelling' further into the personality and character precedes physical attributes. It takes time, but attainable because we are God-given gift - Patience.