Update!

[hushed_lavinia]

Well, I e-mailed my dad asking why the aisle thing was a problem and he wrote back that I didn't need to worry, and that he'd do whatever I wanted him to do for my wedding to "be like I'd dreamed."

So... crisis averted!

Hooray!

(But I still have "DRINK" on my checklist of things to do at the rehearsal dinner.) :)