You're Going To Hate Me For This
I hate it when women breast feed in public, I hate it, I despise it, I resent it, it irks me, I shun it, and I am disgusted by it. I find it vulgar. Ok, sorry for all the mean words but I'm constantly told how great it is and how wrong I am. So this is my journal so I can voice myself. xD
So this came up when I was reading a blog in Xanga (maybe I should stop reading blogs sometimes they really upset me), I'm also in the middle of an anxiety attack right now and it hasn't calmed down yet. I'd like to go see a Dr about this but I don't have health insurance anymore.
Most people believe (or those who commented did) that woman have the right to breast feed their babies anywhere and everywhere. Why? Why do they think that "because it's for my baby" they can do whatever they want without caring if they make people uncomfortable. Honestly I get uncomfortable with PDA too. People say oh it's natural, people only dislike it because they look at boobs as sex objects. People in other countries don't care.
Breast feeding is sacred, it is undeniably intimate. Why do things like that in public? It is NOT necessary to breast feed your child in public. You can prepare ahead of time and feed them with a bottle.
Honestly I'm not against breast feeding I want to breast feed my kids. However my kids are not above anyone else in this world. They're equals. I feel like in certain situations some women talk like breast feeding makes you a better mother, being a stay at home mom makes you a better mother, etc. It doesn't.
Also I'd like to say it's more emotionally what you do for your kids then physical. Your kid could have a mansion and an iphone and a Mercedes but if they don't feel loved by you and that they can confide in you everything else is completely SHIT.
So this came up when I was reading a blog in Xanga (maybe I should stop reading blogs sometimes they really upset me), I'm also in the middle of an anxiety attack right now and it hasn't calmed down yet. I'd like to go see a Dr about this but I don't have health insurance anymore.
Most people believe (or those who commented did) that woman have the right to breast feed their babies anywhere and everywhere. Why? Why do they think that "because it's for my baby" they can do whatever they want without caring if they make people uncomfortable. Honestly I get uncomfortable with PDA too. People say oh it's natural, people only dislike it because they look at boobs as sex objects. People in other countries don't care.
Breast feeding is sacred, it is undeniably intimate. Why do things like that in public? It is NOT necessary to breast feed your child in public. You can prepare ahead of time and feed them with a bottle.
Honestly I'm not against breast feeding I want to breast feed my kids. However my kids are not above anyone else in this world. They're equals. I feel like in certain situations some women talk like breast feeding makes you a better mother, being a stay at home mom makes you a better mother, etc. It doesn't.
Also I'd like to say it's more emotionally what you do for your kids then physical. Your kid could have a mansion and an iphone and a Mercedes but if they don't feel loved by you and that they can confide in you everything else is completely SHIT.