to men
Everyone has their petty insecurities. We're all equal. Stop dwelling on your pain, because honestly your shit is no worse off than anyone else's. Stand up and be strong.
I'm tired of being the nice female friend always willing to pat your back during lunchtime, to listen to your problems of depression and suicidal thoughts and sadness. Be courageous, stand up and fight. Us women need you men in the world, because as fierce and determined as we sometimes can be, we are gentle and loving and compassionate by nature. We will balance you out, you need to relax and trust us. We need you, soldiers of the world. We will love you but we won't tame you.
Stop dwelling. Stop drowning in your little hole that you refuse to climb out of.
And as my friend Morgan so aptly put it:
I am so fed up with the male species right now. If they aren't messing up their own lives, they are messing up the lives of everyone around them. At least all the males I know. FYI: video games aren't your life. If you're enough of a fucktard to base your entire life with people who run around in a make believe world, gaining weight and losing braing cells, you might as well just start doing X; at least you would be more interesting with the same side effects.
Guys are also becoming pussies. Where the hell did all the dominant guys who fight for their women, hide their emotions, drink beer, work out, and want sex all the time go? If they aren't running around in women's jeans, listening to emo songs sappier than Celine Dion, and finding it cool to be anti-social, they are obsessed with online games, never speak their fucking mind and act more confusing than a girl.
And whatever happened to agression? If you like a girl, don't tiptoe around the issue and force her to make decisons based on her emotions- fucking tell her how you feel and either deal with being a friend, go away, or fucking steal her away from the man she's with! I can't tell you how many of my girl friends have been liked by guys who are all into how she "feels" about the guy she's with, and whether or not its "right" to move out of the relationship. Its called drama, and guys shouldn't do it. You're a GUY, so act like one and demand she make a decison. Deal with rejection and move on or you've got the girl.
And if you have a girl, be with her or don't be with her, but don't make excuses and still claim you love her. Its not right, and its called playing girl games NOT guy games. Its retarded.
And "guy friends" who still have crushes on the "girl friend" - get over it. We want to have fun with you, not help you get over something we want to pretend doesn't exist. It makes everything awkward. And be a guy friend- not a girl friend- don't cause drama, stir up shit, or spread rumors. Unless you're gay, because everyone likes gay guys.
I'm not the only one who is frustrated- my entire group of girls just had a rant about it and I'm speaking out. Guys... just be guys, please? Lord, at this point lesbianism would be easier.
I'm tired of being the nice female friend always willing to pat your back during lunchtime, to listen to your problems of depression and suicidal thoughts and sadness. Be courageous, stand up and fight. Us women need you men in the world, because as fierce and determined as we sometimes can be, we are gentle and loving and compassionate by nature. We will balance you out, you need to relax and trust us. We need you, soldiers of the world. We will love you but we won't tame you.
Stop dwelling. Stop drowning in your little hole that you refuse to climb out of.
And as my friend Morgan so aptly put it:
I am so fed up with the male species right now. If they aren't messing up their own lives, they are messing up the lives of everyone around them. At least all the males I know. FYI: video games aren't your life. If you're enough of a fucktard to base your entire life with people who run around in a make believe world, gaining weight and losing braing cells, you might as well just start doing X; at least you would be more interesting with the same side effects.
Guys are also becoming pussies. Where the hell did all the dominant guys who fight for their women, hide their emotions, drink beer, work out, and want sex all the time go? If they aren't running around in women's jeans, listening to emo songs sappier than Celine Dion, and finding it cool to be anti-social, they are obsessed with online games, never speak their fucking mind and act more confusing than a girl.
And whatever happened to agression? If you like a girl, don't tiptoe around the issue and force her to make decisons based on her emotions- fucking tell her how you feel and either deal with being a friend, go away, or fucking steal her away from the man she's with! I can't tell you how many of my girl friends have been liked by guys who are all into how she "feels" about the guy she's with, and whether or not its "right" to move out of the relationship. Its called drama, and guys shouldn't do it. You're a GUY, so act like one and demand she make a decison. Deal with rejection and move on or you've got the girl.
And if you have a girl, be with her or don't be with her, but don't make excuses and still claim you love her. Its not right, and its called playing girl games NOT guy games. Its retarded.
And "guy friends" who still have crushes on the "girl friend" - get over it. We want to have fun with you, not help you get over something we want to pretend doesn't exist. It makes everything awkward. And be a guy friend- not a girl friend- don't cause drama, stir up shit, or spread rumors. Unless you're gay, because everyone likes gay guys.
I'm not the only one who is frustrated- my entire group of girls just had a rant about it and I'm speaking out. Guys... just be guys, please? Lord, at this point lesbianism would be easier.