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[howtoshyne]

I'm kind of getting annoyed with the comments on the last two posts. (<-- understatements) It seems as if many of you are defending rapists and sex offenders. The only way I can console myself is hoping that you're just ignorant and not really saying that it's just as much the victims fault as it is the rapists. Maybe you've never heard their

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[creekerchick]

if you wanna tell me, TELL ME, and tell me ONLY. dammit, I am sick of this crap that EVERYONE has to know that you hate my thoughts. My thoughts are mine, and well, get over it. You have to know that to post something like that, you are going to get a controversial post or whatever. I'm the only one you don't agree with.. so don't say "all you." it's just me.

I'll say again, I don't support rapists. I think that the argument for the girls who dress skanky, or the girls who get drunk in a place where there are people she doesn't know, or high at that, isn't very strong.

I know rape is a terrible thing. I'm not saying it's okay. I don't know personally the effects of it on someone, but I know it sucks. more than sucks.

don't think that I support rapists. but i don't think it would happen half as often as it does if girls would wear more clothing, or not get drunk or high in public places or walking around alone at night. I know it will still happen, but not as it does now.

i don't know how your friends were raped, and really, i don't want to know. I don't want that weight on my shoulders. I can tell that it wasn't because they were dressing like a whore or drunk or high in a public place. i agree that the girls who thought they were safe don't deserve being raped. the girls sleeping at home, or the married women who thought their husbands were trustworthy. the girls who make the wrong choices are the ones who don't deserve that defense.

[howtoshyne]

FOR YOUR INFORMATION, it wasn't ONLY you. Ok, it was several people actually on another account. It seems like everyone I talk to thinks the same thing. The way a girl dresses shouldn't change anything. They're still not asking for it! If a girl wants to drink, so be it. That doesn't give guys the right to rape her!!

Why is this so hard to comprehend?? If only everyone taught their children and their friends and everyone how WRONG it is to commit rape, then there would be changes. If our fucking justice system WAS actually a fucking justice system, then we wouldn't have assholes and sickos left out on the streets to rape some more.

It's still our fault thought isn't it? We can't have long hair, it's too attractive. God forbid you're a blonde, it's too attractive. Wear a skirt above the knees. A low cut shirt. Go to a bar, to see a band you like! It happened to ME. Stupidly, I went alone, to a bar in Cambridge to see HalestorM. I was wearing a red plaid mini skirt. And I realized that this guy was following me around. Luckily he was obvious, and luckily the band was protective enough to let me hang out backstage (meaning the kitchen) but I was surrounded by friends, and not alone.

Many girls like me are just as naive, and there are guys who can hide it so well. Many girls aren't as confident and self-assured, and they will conform to society. They're still not asking for it. I have never met a girl that deserved to be raped. And I've met alot of girls that have been raped. Even those cheerleaders girls hate so much at school. They dress provacatively, but they're just trying to fit in. Being a teenager is a confusing place in life, and they just want to be appreciated.

But that kind of appreciation, no one wants. And I still firmly believe that NO MATTER WHAT, under NO circumstances, is rape EVER ever EVER the victims fault.

Look at it this way, if you're asking for rape, it's sex.