A dilemma
Dear roomie
I love you but I hate you and I say that with all due sincerity.
In love and hate
Your housemate
HMHer's how can I tell her that I want her to move out? She's only been living with me for just shy of 6 months and I can't stand it. If you've read my previous posts you know about the dishes (STILL. HOW HARD IS IT TO RINSE YOUR FUCKING DISHES?!) but did you know she seems to suffer from a clean cat litter aversion? She doesn't clean it unless I ask and then she gets snooty. She's got a cat too! She should help with the litter boxes.
I think I've mentioned the cleaning issue (separate to the dishes issue) whereby she cleans but... she doesn't. You can tell I've cleaned because that floor is clean enough to eat off of and I MOVE things in order to clean everything. Not my roomie, oh no. If there's shit on the floor it stays on the floor. She couldn't possibly pick it up!
She had all of yesterday to clean and she didn't do it. Now, when I ask her to clean tomorrow she'll get all huffy. It takes 45 minutes (not even that, if I'm honest. 15 minutes to vacuum the floor and 10 to mop it, oh hey, 25 minutes!) or less to vacuum and mop the floor in this place (it's tiny) but she tries to wriggle out of it with 'but I'm buuuuusy!'. Really? She's not working right now so as far as I can see she's got all the time in the world. 'But I'm adjusting my resume!' does not cut it. It takes her an hour to do that so she can set aside a few minutes to clean the floor.
This is actually really frustrating me. To the point that I have started sleepwalking. That's something I only do when I'm stressed out. And my house smells like cat pee because she can't be assed to clean the litter boxes! (I clean them, but it should be a rotating schedule, her one day, me the other... not... me all the time.)
I'm willing to give her until January next year, so that she can get on her feet and find a full time job but after that I want her gone. I don't want to live with her anymore. Let her cat destroy someone else's furniture. Likelihood is, however, that I'll be stuck with him. Don't get me wrong, he's gorgeous, but he's a kitten and I loathe kittens. They're perfectly adorable in photos and as other peoples baby animals but I don't like them. Adult cats for me all the way.
As I've mentioned before, I love her, she's really great to be around in short bursts but living with her is a whole 'nother kettle of fish.
I love you but I hate you and I say that with all due sincerity.
In love and hate
Your housemate
HMHer's how can I tell her that I want her to move out? She's only been living with me for just shy of 6 months and I can't stand it. If you've read my previous posts you know about the dishes (STILL. HOW HARD IS IT TO RINSE YOUR FUCKING DISHES?!) but did you know she seems to suffer from a clean cat litter aversion? She doesn't clean it unless I ask and then she gets snooty. She's got a cat too! She should help with the litter boxes.
I think I've mentioned the cleaning issue (separate to the dishes issue) whereby she cleans but... she doesn't. You can tell I've cleaned because that floor is clean enough to eat off of and I MOVE things in order to clean everything. Not my roomie, oh no. If there's shit on the floor it stays on the floor. She couldn't possibly pick it up!
She had all of yesterday to clean and she didn't do it. Now, when I ask her to clean tomorrow she'll get all huffy. It takes 45 minutes (not even that, if I'm honest. 15 minutes to vacuum the floor and 10 to mop it, oh hey, 25 minutes!) or less to vacuum and mop the floor in this place (it's tiny) but she tries to wriggle out of it with 'but I'm buuuuusy!'. Really? She's not working right now so as far as I can see she's got all the time in the world. 'But I'm adjusting my resume!' does not cut it. It takes her an hour to do that so she can set aside a few minutes to clean the floor.
This is actually really frustrating me. To the point that I have started sleepwalking. That's something I only do when I'm stressed out. And my house smells like cat pee because she can't be assed to clean the litter boxes! (I clean them, but it should be a rotating schedule, her one day, me the other... not... me all the time.)
I'm willing to give her until January next year, so that she can get on her feet and find a full time job but after that I want her gone. I don't want to live with her anymore. Let her cat destroy someone else's furniture. Likelihood is, however, that I'll be stuck with him. Don't get me wrong, he's gorgeous, but he's a kitten and I loathe kittens. They're perfectly adorable in photos and as other peoples baby animals but I don't like them. Adult cats for me all the way.
As I've mentioned before, I love her, she's really great to be around in short bursts but living with her is a whole 'nother kettle of fish.