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hottermelb

11 More Weeks..

May 14, 2004 13:44

And the countdown begins! Can you believe I only have 11 more weeks until my daughter is due? It's crazy! It's been going by so quickly now it's like, "Damn! She's gonna be here anytime now!" Anyways, let me see..For Mother's Day, Anthony took me to St. Augustine and we ate dinner, went to see a movie and then we went for a long walk on the beach ( Read more... )

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burned_rose May 14 2004, 11:36:29 UTC

kimmie...

i was jus wondering if u could give me ne info on morning sickness...cause im 2 mnths in, gittin an abortion soon, but i feel sick all the effin time.

pweeeeessss help me!
-Laura

wow tia_c_b84 May 14 2004, 13:01:47 UTC

So your Just going to Kill a baby? Aren't you a Awesome person.

Re: wow burned_rose May 14 2004, 19:24:01 UTC

No, I'm going to have a mass of cells that are building up in my body removed from my body. If it can survive outside of my body in this form, then it will live ( ... )

Re: wow tia_c_b84 May 14 2004, 21:31:21 UTC

Well I'll keep this short..and stick to my beliefs. But First Off I didn't mean to come off "rude". ANYWAY Yes I would Keep it. If I'm the one Opening my legs..(and you know what COULD Happen) Then you should be able to handle a baby. If not then..well..I'm sure u have heard it b-4. Anyway Have a Nice Life.

Re: wow burned_rose May 15 2004, 02:47:45 UTC

Even though this case was something of a regularity (making love to my boyfriend, condom broke, BAM baby) Must I tell you that I have also ben raped ( ... )

Re: wow tia_c_b84 May 15 2004, 12:12:58 UTC

...Right..Yet again another thing u could have kept to yourself..unless i guess u wanted everyone to know u were raped. And I have been in THAT situation..luckily no baby came from it but if it had i would of carried it full term and then gaveing it up for adoption...I would give it a chance. It's not the baby's fualt..nor urs in the case of rape. But its not the baby's fult in the case of haveing sex and the condom breaking. But you know what like i said in my last post..HAVE A NICE LIFE.

Re: wow hottermelb May 15 2004, 13:51:16 UTC

Okay you guys..Obviously everyone has their own beliefs on this situation, but sometimes you have to think about it...I don't go for abortions but I do however, support Laura's decision on what she's doing. She's doing it way before the baby forms and way before anything is really functioning..I mean hey..if you think about it, she's doing it only because she can't really raise a baby in the situation she's in. I mean now maybe if she wasn't in college, or she was and she was paying for it and if she and her boyfriend were finacially stable I'm sure she would keep the baby. She's more thinking of the baby and how the babys life would be if she were to keep it. Would you want a baby knowing that you couldn't provide it with pampers, formula, wipes, clothes, or anything that it needs? I mean sometimes you gotta put your beliefs into perspective here. I really don't agree on abortions, but sometimes things happen to where women actually need to have one ( ... )

Re: wow burned_rose May 15 2004, 14:25:12 UTC

Kimmie, you are exactly right. Thank you.

I was debating carrying it full term and putting it up for adoption, but I cant afford ANY bills...and I dont want to give somebody a sickly baby that could die. People have been sued for stuff like that.

Re: wow hottermelb May 16 2004, 10:12:01 UTC

You're welcome hon. =)

hottermelb May 15 2004, 13:44:57 UTC

Sometimes when a woman is pregnant she can have morning sickness for the full term she carries her baby. It's pretty sucky I might say. Sometimes (like me) you'll have it for the first trimester, it'll go away then come back when you're going into your third. It really depends on the woman, then again every pregnancy is different. Now I can however tell you how to ease the feeling until you do have your abortion what you can do is eat saltine crackers before you go to bed and when you wake up, I dunno why but it helps greatlyAs for the abortion thing I want you to know that I do support you. I understand why you're doing it. Besides, the baby isn't really fully developed yet, so you wouldn't be killing a "baby" at all. Babies aren't fully formed until you're really 15 weeks which is 3.5 months in. So don't worry about what others think. I support you 100%! It's the only thing you can do at the moment and it's better then bringing a baby into this world when you can't take care of him/her and get the baby what he/she needs. So don't ( ... )

burned_rose May 15 2004, 14:29:46 UTC

I'll keep you updated hun! Thank you so much for supporting me. its great to know that I have friends who can in a time of need. Thanks darlin'!

<3Laura

hottermelb May 16 2004, 10:13:04 UTC

Alrighty! =) I'll be waiting for the updates and all. You're welcome for the support. You're a friend and that's what friends are supposed to do. Well, I'll be honest with you if you weren't doing it for a good reason, I would have a huge problem with that, but you have several good reasons, so I'm here for you.

burned_rose May 17 2004, 08:29:11 UTC

:) Thanx Kimmie.

I just made my appointment for Saturday at 8am.

and I am not allowed to wear any piercings, which sucks, cause I have about 15 piercings on my body. lol. So I will have to remove all of them. I asked them if they have any fillers so that I wont have to worry about them closing up.

I am so nervous though. They said there are going to be protesters outside yelling at me..which is something I cannot stand. I dont have how I am gunna survive with that.

blazinbadzula May 18 2004, 17:43:45 UTC

Ignore the protesters. All they do is shout in your ears and make you angry. Just ignore them.

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