Woah

[hotelmornings]

You know, I always sit here thinking about how shitty my life is; I haven’t written anything that thought provoking as of late. So, I’m going to write something to give you a better idea of who I am, what I stand for

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[vulpinepilot]

hehe nice essay. its easy for me to not take it personally. I dont know if our talk via IM was the only contributer to this essay, but I still feel the need to point out similarities and difference in my life from this one you believe to be so pathetic.

1: yeah Im antisocial. not incredibly, but enough its hard to approach people. but hey Im young, I havent given up yet.

2: yeah I do have an online persona, because in reality I cannot be an anthro fox. but also I act much more interested, and I talk to people a lot via IM, whereas in person, I am ussually disinterested and shy.

3: no Im not looking for love online. I decided after my last relationship to not actively seek out love, online or otherwise. I meet people online because they IM me and I am interested in them. I get to know them, but I never start out thinking "hey I wonder if (s)he'll be my boyfriend/girlfriend." and Ive NEVER taken those online dating sites seriously.

4: I make it clear to everyone I talk to, that I talk to at least four other people. so theres no questioning for them

finally 5: I disagree with the inability to find love online. or rather the impossibility of love online. it is possible for you to get to know someone online, same as through letters. and because looks dont play into it at all, it is possible to really get to know someone before you ever see them, just like the man in your story did. now, I dont seek love out, I seek out connections. I meet people and befriend them online. I dont admit to any of the feelings I have for certain people out of those to be love, but I call it that, only because I call everything love. friendship is after all a kind of love.

[hotelmornings]

It's not you, it's so many people I've come across. Partly from our convo, and partly since V. day is comming up so close. It was not really you who inspired it; just someone who is willing to break up with someone for me. Thats what really trigged it; he's not happy with his boyfriend. So, he wants to break up with him and get with me see the problem here is that he lives in FL. So, I think it's so lame of him to do that.

Everyone lives their life differently; you live yours the only way you can, and I live mine the only way I can.