So what the fuck is it with the gay community????

[hotbastard]

So what the fuck is it with the gay community, anyway???? Really? Why are people in the gay community threatened so much by people who are in the closet or identify as bisexual

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Forgive me for just butting in...

[nikith]

So I randomly clicked you from the comments on the "Bisexuality is real" banner page. Here's what I've experienced, as a bisexual woman (which I agree, it's always been more ok to be bi and female than bi and male.) Straight people wonder when I'm going to just admit I'm gay, and gay folks see me as a straight girl who gets her grins from playing with other girls. When in all reality, that's not it at all. I'm drawn to a spirit, a soul, an energy. Mostly that's men. Often enough, though, that has been in a woman. And you know, I don't question it.

It's hard, walking this edge. I live in a small town, where my father is a prominent business man, and I fight tooth and nail to keep my private life just that: Private. Which usually means I don't play near my hometown.

One of my dearest friends is described accurately as my "bi-polar alcoholic lesbian best friend." She and I talk about attracton and romance and she wishes she knew more people like me; people who could just be strong and open about their sexuality, no matter what.

So. Hi! I'm Nikki, and that's my soapbox.

Re: Forgive me for just butting in...

[hotbastard]

Well. thanks for buttin' in. Its nice to hear from a fellow bisexual every now and then.