Oct 01, 2008 17:07
So it's like what, 6 months after all the drama occured...? something like that? well, for those of you in suspense wondering if we're still together, yes, we are. I think we're doing better then ever, the counseling sessions really helped. you know, it's funny how much of our lives are about communicating well with others. Especially in a relationship. I have another friend who, thank heavens is moving, who decided to put the blame on me for his divorce. Because some how it was my fault because I was having relationship problems that I didn't even see, that he ended up seperating from his wife. Good one. Who needs friends when you have friends who will turn around and blame you for the bad stuff in thier life, even though he was part of the problem. Anyway, enough about the friend who became more of a problem then he is worth...
Peter and I went through counseling and it was very good for us. I think we're now stronger then we've ever been, even though being apart really freaking sucks. We talk more effectively now, even if we don't say much, at least we've started to change how we think about what the other person is responding with. We're going to go back packing in a few weeks with some friends of ours. I'm looking forward to it. Neither of us has money, which sucks, but we still make the most of our time together. I miss himm so much up here. I don't have that many friends up here, and the ones I do are always busy. *sigh* it's all good. So there ya go, now the suspense can end.