Jan 03, 2005 21:47
My personal commandments
I WILL NOT .. deliberately exploit any person for my selfish sexual gratification.
2)I WILL NOT..HAVE SEXUAL INTERCOURSE WITH PERSON EXCEPT THE ONE TO WHOM I HAVE MYSELF IN MARRIAGE.
3) I WILL NOT.. use the signs of affection - hugs, kisses, touches- in a non-loving way or simply as a means of arousing sexual feelings in myself or another.
4) I WILL NOT.. put myself in any situation- time, place, activities, companions- in which I will be tempted to go beyond my personal sexual limits or those of my partner.
5) I WILL NOT.. use alcohol or any other drugs that will impair my ability to think clearly and act responsibility in a dating situation.
6) I WILL NOT..watch movies, use websites, look at magazines, read literature, or listen to music whose primary aim is to exploit or degrade sexuality.
7) I WILL NOT.. tease, encourage, pressure, or force another person to go beyond his or her personal moral limits.
8)I WILL NOT..date a person with a reputation for casual sex or party with people who have such a rep.
9)I WILL NOT..deliberately fantasize or daydream about situations that are immoral and contrary to my personal value system.
10)I WILL NOT.. blame another person for my own failure to set limits for myself or for my lack of self-discipline in following those I have set.- from Sex and the Teenager: choices and decisions
I believe that these r my personal commandments that I want to live by!
-Christina Tincopa