I ate a dog...

[hornyheatherho]

Ok, so not literally. But I did give Rufus a much needed bath and extreme makeover haircut, Zoe a quickie cause she was being a brat and Tazzy a bath and butt trim (don't ask)! My house is 98% clean and so are my dogs, minus June Bug who is NOT getting a bath. I am not that insane. I forgot to take my happy pills until 10 pm tonight, which is

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[the_leaking_pen]

blink blink. hes a MAN, and not a BOY, and so 66 percent of your emotions mean bunk to him.

WTF?

soyyr, that does not compute. if hes a man, grown up , and not a little boy, he should be MORE secure in his emotion, in dealing with others emotion, not less, not colder less emotional and more distant.

and yeah, it IS amazing the way little shit can escalate. the key is to see when its about to do so, and cut off the cycle right there.

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[hornyheatherho]

I didn't mean that boys are open to more emotion. I meant that men, generally are not open to 66% of my emotions. I have too much. I think too much, am too deep and emotional. I don't mean to offend men, in fact I think it's somewhat commendable. I mean, my emotions definately can get the best of me and I hate that! It's just more about the basic differences in the sexes.

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[the_leaking_pen]

see, and what im saying is that i have an opposite view there. boys tend to be less open to others emotions. men SHOULD have learned in growing up how to handle others emotions. and the standard women are more emotional, is, honestly, crap. its another societal role, macho shit, men cant show their emotions crap, personally.

/and think too much? how can someone think too much. i never understood that phrase.
//sorry, just, personal opinion has always been that if youre in an emotional relationship, both partners should learn to share in each others emotions. builds a stronger, deeper bond.

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[hornyheatherho]

'should' doesn't mean that it automatically happens

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[the_leaking_pen]

this is true. but youre the one automatically stating, this is the way it is.

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[hornyheatherho]

I see it on his face, in his reactions to my emotions. It's good, we have talked and he understands me a bit more now. Although, that doesn't mean he won't have the same flight reaction next time I get a bit emotional.

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[the_leaking_pen]

ohh no, im not talking his reactions. everyone person is different, and he may be more or less emotional than most. i only met him the once, cant really say. i was just taking exception with teh statement that men as a whole dont show their emotions as much, or are less able to deal with them. personally, while its an ajdustment for you, as you said, i wouldnt be surprised if his being more emotionally even isnt a plus a for you.