marriage cleaning
sometimes i feel really bad about the division of labor in our marriage. i am the unkempt one. i leave clothes out (for washing/airing efficiency), i leave dishes out (so i can wash them all at once), i'm completely unaware of what has gone bad in the fridge. the writer thinks that i know food has gone bad and i just refuse to touch it or throw it out. i'm trying to correct this behavior, but still having an ordeal.
but... i do see the soap scum in the bathrooms and clean the toilets. he suggested we get a maid service once every 2 weeks because we hadn't cleaned the toilets/sinks/showers for months. i let him know that i've been doing it on at least a monthly basis, and that i can see dirt better than he can because he usually doesn't have his glasses/contacts in when he is using these objects.
so i think i'm going to have to take the lead on this, i really should do it more often. i'm going to book a cleaning lady, i feel so weird about it.
but... i do see the soap scum in the bathrooms and clean the toilets. he suggested we get a maid service once every 2 weeks because we hadn't cleaned the toilets/sinks/showers for months. i let him know that i've been doing it on at least a monthly basis, and that i can see dirt better than he can because he usually doesn't have his glasses/contacts in when he is using these objects.
so i think i'm going to have to take the lead on this, i really should do it more often. i'm going to book a cleaning lady, i feel so weird about it.