Friends who ditch friends and then alienate them are no longer friends and, in fact, something far less than friends. It doesn't take a philosophy professor to understand that.
Actions speak louder than words. Choosing one friend over the other doesn't do anything to help settle a conflict. So thanks for that.
It's sad that you are treating this like high school and even more sad that you try to lay any blame on me. There comes a point in your life when it is clear that your old friends were toxic. If you don't agree then I can't do anything about that. You have made your choice with who you have chosen to side with (friends should neither take sides), though your diagnosis of the problem defies all logic. I'm sorry if you think I said anything about you that you didn't appreciate, but an annonymous comment does nothing more than confirm my suspicion that in the eight years we have known each other, you have never actually taken the time to get to know me. Though my alleged remark was probably taken out of context by someone who we all know is infamous for taking things out of context, you refuse to check your sources.
If any of you would like to at least attempt to be civil with me and accept your share of the blame, and acknowledge that, in this particular situation, almost none lies with me, then perhaps I could "let it go". But please do not think for a second that I have any apologies and that I will make amends to save face, even though my face is completely clean. And please remember that it is very immature to base opinions of people from other people who have sinister motives. Friendships are disposable and I have been disposed of.
Sorry if it seems like a little bit of a coincidence when all of my friends stop talking to me after I was the one who was wronged. Sorry I heard about you not inviting me over because of Ryan. Sorry I didn't hear that something I mentioned about you in passing came up completely out of context. Sorry I am being "rude" in response to you anonymously claiming that I "talk shit behind people's backs", which is neither civil nor accurate. Sorry I don't come back to friends that frequently disappoint me. Sorry I can't think of any "behavior" that I have done to "alienate myself". Sorry you find my defending myself against your fallacious claims to be rude. Sorry you have to make me feel like a horrible person when I am the one who feels hurt.
I am not angry with anyone. I am just disappointed.
The IP address matches up on the first one, so unless someone else typed it on your computer...
And will you please tell me why the hell anyone is angry at me? I didn't do ANYTHING. And the one other time I had people over, you were invited, you just never came. You obviously aren't completely oblivious to this, and I have no way of finding anything out except the long talk I had with Glynnis two days ago. But now she is in Pennsylvania, which is a shame, because she is the only person who hasn't completely betrayed me. So other than you not inviting me over for reasons that I am unclear about and the comment from your IP address, I am not drawing any assumptions. These things I know as fact, and I have the right to assume if you have the right to assume that you can trust a pathological side-changer over me. That is not fair at all. I wouldn't be disappointed with you if you weren't being so defensive.
I don't know what the fuck I said to you or Glynnis but I think you just admitted that you lied to me. If not confronting me when you heard that I apparently said something about you and Glynnis is "nice", then yes, you have been nice all along. You have no right to be disappointed with me becaue you don't even know if any of those things are even true because you trusted the words of someone else telling you what I said, even though you know I would not say anything stupid and untrue about you. And worse, you expect me to know what these things I said are when I didn't even know I said them. Then you tell me to ask Ryan or Joey when apparently they have been off telling you lies rather than simply apologizing to me. Just because they don't think I should be upset because they uninvited me two days before the camping trip I had thought I was going on for two weeks doesn't mean I wasn't upset. And giving me the cold shoulder because they didn't like the fact that I was upset? I am not trying to pin my anger at that situation on you, but you have just proved that I should be as upset at you as I am at them, and if this is the end of our friendship, you have no right to blame it on me.
If you think I would lie to you about anything or say anything horrible about you, then you don't know me. If you think I would have some kind of motive and my other "friends" wouldn't, think about the situation. What if I had come to you first about the shitty things that happened to me? Instead, they tip the balance their way so you will be mad at me for something I still have no idea about. You are calling me a liar after you just blatantly lied to me. That's a friendly thing to do. I don't think good friends usually do that. It hurts.
you know what, i'm done. done trying to reason with you and done being nice to you. you are milking this for all it is worth and i'm tired of it. so fucking forget it. if this is how you want it, you got it. i'm done with this.
It's sad that you are treating this like high school and even more sad that you try to lay any blame on me. There comes a point in your life when it is clear that your old friends were toxic. If you don't agree then I can't do anything about that. You have made your choice with who you have chosen to side with (friends should neither take sides), though your diagnosis of the problem defies all logic. I'm sorry if you think I said anything about you that you didn't appreciate, but an annonymous comment does nothing more than confirm my suspicion that in the eight years we have known each other, you have never actually taken the time to get to know me. Though my alleged remark was probably taken out of context by someone who we all know is infamous for taking things out of context, you refuse to check your sources.
If any of you would like to at least attempt to be civil with me and accept your share of the blame, and acknowledge that, in this particular situation, almost none lies with me, then perhaps I could "let it go". But please do not think for a second that I have any apologies and that I will make amends to save face, even though my face is completely clean. And please remember that it is very immature to base opinions of people from other people who have sinister motives. Friendships are disposable and I have been disposed of.
I leave Sunday the 19th.
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I am not angry with anyone. I am just disappointed.
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And will you please tell me why the hell anyone is angry at me? I didn't do ANYTHING. And the one other time I had people over, you were invited, you just never came. You obviously aren't completely oblivious to this, and I have no way of finding anything out except the long talk I had with Glynnis two days ago. But now she is in Pennsylvania, which is a shame, because she is the only person who hasn't completely betrayed me. So other than you not inviting me over for reasons that I am unclear about and the comment from your IP address, I am not drawing any assumptions. These things I know as fact, and I have the right to assume if you have the right to assume that you can trust a pathological side-changer over me. That is not fair at all. I wouldn't be disappointed with you if you weren't being so defensive.
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