FED UP
i am so fed up with eric and his friends. its like he has complete disregard for the fact that i'm his wife or something. whenever i go out with my friends, i always make sure i come home at a decent time. i mean just because i'm still young i AM married as well. i just don't think i should be staying out all late, plus i know he wouldn't like it at all. so today he went to his BEST FRIEND'S house and i asked him what time he would come back. now this was around 5:20 that he was leaving...he said he wouldn't be gone long at all, they were just gonna watch some video and he would come home. i asked AGAIN what time he would be back, and he said he didn't know. so i told him that i would go out with Jazmin if he wasn't home by 9:30. that gave him plenty of time to watch the damn video and come home. now as much as i hate telling him what to do or giving him and ultimatum, its like every time he goes out there without me he comes back past 12 and i have to sit and wait for him. i'm tired of it. so he said he wouldn't be gone that long and would call me and not to leave. so i said fine but if he didn't call my 9:30 i was going out. well he called at 9 and said he was gonna be leaving in an hour, which meant he would be home by 11. so i said fine, i won't go out then. and 11 came, then 11:30...finally at 12 something he calls and says he's just leaving INDIO, not James house, but some other guys house in INDIO, which is 30 mins from where he said he was gonna be. AND they had to drop off two other ppl and then go back to James house to get his car then he would come home. i'm really pissed off at him. its like i if i tell him i'm gonna come home at a certain time, i'm gonna do it cuz he's my husband and i respect the fact that i'm married and don't stay out all night. well he can't seem to do that and thinks nothing is wrong at all with what he is doing. he does it ALL THE DAMN TIME. he always goes over there and says he's coming back at a certain time and ends up coming back over 2 hours later than that time and thinks its just ok. i'm sick of his friends being such an important part of his life, its like its more important than ME. not that i don't want him to ever see his friends, its just that i don't see why whenever he is with them he has to stay out til 2 in the morning and make me sit here and wait for him, but the minute my friends call its like he all of a sudden wants to spend time with me, and if i go with them, then he has to go out with his friends too. instead of just sitting home and waiting for me like i do...stupid huh? it makes no sense but this is the last time. next time he goes to his friends house i am just gonna go out. i'm not gonna tell him unless he asks and i'm not gonna worry about trying to get home at a respectful time, either. its just not right and i'm sick of this one way relationship.