Too serious for my own good... =(
Some random guy with a hot bod msged me on Guys4Men.com...
Him: "hi"
Me: "hi, wassup? =)"
Him: "any plans tonight? wanna have fun?"
Me: "er, not tonight... not horny. care to exchange face pic?"
Then that was it... he logged off... "wow, was I really such a turn off?" I thought...
But really, I am not feeling horny at all, despite not having had the ( Read more... )
So maybe I should just try to meet more people and learn from experience... haha... Play catch up...
I actually sent the guy my face pic... (I never liked the idea of taking bod pics, so I thought I might as well "sell" my face)... I sent one of the very few well taken ones that I have on my computer. Was rather confident with that picture I sent. But maybe he expected a bod pic instead (since it's all about sex anyway, and maybe ugly or cute is not a criteria for him?). So perhaps he just assumed that I don't have a nice body, and decided to just put it to an end... So perhaps, the problem does not lie with me in that sense.
But what roids pointed out was really interesting. I never thought of it that way... I didn't think that people would actually refuse to exchange face pic... There are instances when I think facial features are not that crucial, but it's more of the body, attitude, and vibes that really makes everything seem more appealing...
And about the "discreet" part, lol... That's quite amusing... =)
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I dislike the word flirt. I dun flirt. I have good conversation with people.
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Aiyah, in this context, purely about sex, it's all about flirting and dirty talk, and good conversations are more for LTR and friendships...
But of course good conversations are always better. All those dirty talk can be so contrived and "mechanical" sometimes... can be quite strangely boring sometimes...
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anyway it's his loss. it always is. :)
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