RL and Goodbye

[honeybean]

In about a week (or as soon as I recover from this flare), I'll be doing a massive f-list cut. I've held on for too long (years) some hope that I'd return to LJ with art and rejoin fandom, but RL has intervened in the worst way and I'd just feel more comfortable with a handful of folks reading the personal stuff. I've already got filters set, but I

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[honeybean]

Of course you're staying, silly. ;)

Hubby isn't on board at all with my shaving my head - he thinks I'm overreacting, and he says he can't tell I'm losing my hair (coming from the man who NEVER looks in the mirror at himself, who has never noticed when I get my hair cut, and has trouble remembering what color my eyes are...he just doesn't pay attention to features.) He has admitted it looks "feathery", but doesn't seem to equate the feathery fine hair with having lost 3/4 of the volume. And dammit, I had gorgeous hair.

I'm mentally preparing myself now for a future shave. I'm trying one last-ditch effort to save my hair through other means, and after a few months we'll know if that's a loss. But I need to mentally prepare for this - thoroughly - before I do it. Unless I start losing it in clumps - then yeah, it's off, and I don't care what hubby says.

And for the record, I just f*cking hate this disease. I hate it so much. And I know you understand all too well.

[ukelele]

(...trouble remembering what color your eyes are? is there anyone in the family who DOESN'T have startlingly blue eyes? I mean I'm terrible at noticing eye color myself -- I JUST realized that one of my best friends has blue eyes and found this surprising -- but you, G, C, V -- this is not *subtle*.)

[honeybean]

Actually I have hazel-green eyes. ;) No blue here. Hubby guessed pink, so you're at least within a closer color spectrum.

[ukelele]

Huh! OK, I am duly surprised. (told you i was bad at noticing. ;) I guess G/C/V have more than enough blue to spare.