let's talk about you and me
let's talk about sex!
or rather, the lack there of!
I have a period tracker on my phone... there's a little heart that you add to your calendar when you've been 'intimate'
So I was looking back over my calendar and there's a heart about... once a month.
If that! This is not enough! WAAAYYY not enough. Our sex life is sadly, sadly lacking.
Just being parents makes having sex more difficult... if we get a chance it's more of the fast and furious kind
which is ok, but sometimes I need to take my time! Sometimes I want to be all loved up first!
We have a problem because every single night without fail one or both of our girls somehow find their way out of their beds in the middle of the night and make their way to ours. Every night!!! And it seems that every time we get a little frisky in the middle of the night someone wakes up and needs to go potty or had a nightmare. Seriously, every time. Basically we just quit trying.
It doesn't help that my husband works 12 hour days. He is pretty exhausted. He turns down bj's! WHO DOES THAT!
One tired motherfudger, that's who. he is pretty much asleep as soon as his head hits the pillow. Hard to sex up a person sleeping the sleep of the dead.
It really takes the spice out of it when you have to schedule it in... have to get a babysitter, make sure there's time. Ugh.
I'm super sexually frustrated. I've been sending sexy pictures to Johnny all day... his response was just "Babe are you ok?"
We've been married like 5 years and I guess it doesn't stay crazy like when you first meet and are doing it twice a day! But like... once a week would be nice. I'm going crazy. I need some lovin'! I don't know if there is something wrong with me but I'm just always wanting to. always. And I hate having to take matters into my own hands, so to speak. That's ok... I'd just rather have sex with my gorgeous hubby than with myself!
LOL this is so embarrassing and TMI I know. Luckily probably only 3 or 4 people will see this, so its not that bad. Usually I'm really modest when it comes to talking about this stuff. But I don't even care anymore. I just want my hubby to bonk my brains out!
I think it is nice to feel needed that way. And I haven't felt like someone desires me in a really long time.
:( poor sad and sexless me.
or rather, the lack there of!
I have a period tracker on my phone... there's a little heart that you add to your calendar when you've been 'intimate'
So I was looking back over my calendar and there's a heart about... once a month.
If that! This is not enough! WAAAYYY not enough. Our sex life is sadly, sadly lacking.
Just being parents makes having sex more difficult... if we get a chance it's more of the fast and furious kind
which is ok, but sometimes I need to take my time! Sometimes I want to be all loved up first!
We have a problem because every single night without fail one or both of our girls somehow find their way out of their beds in the middle of the night and make their way to ours. Every night!!! And it seems that every time we get a little frisky in the middle of the night someone wakes up and needs to go potty or had a nightmare. Seriously, every time. Basically we just quit trying.
It doesn't help that my husband works 12 hour days. He is pretty exhausted. He turns down bj's! WHO DOES THAT!
One tired motherfudger, that's who. he is pretty much asleep as soon as his head hits the pillow. Hard to sex up a person sleeping the sleep of the dead.
It really takes the spice out of it when you have to schedule it in... have to get a babysitter, make sure there's time. Ugh.
I'm super sexually frustrated. I've been sending sexy pictures to Johnny all day... his response was just "Babe are you ok?"
We've been married like 5 years and I guess it doesn't stay crazy like when you first meet and are doing it twice a day! But like... once a week would be nice. I'm going crazy. I need some lovin'! I don't know if there is something wrong with me but I'm just always wanting to. always. And I hate having to take matters into my own hands, so to speak. That's ok... I'd just rather have sex with my gorgeous hubby than with myself!
LOL this is so embarrassing and TMI I know. Luckily probably only 3 or 4 people will see this, so its not that bad. Usually I'm really modest when it comes to talking about this stuff. But I don't even care anymore. I just want my hubby to bonk my brains out!
I think it is nice to feel needed that way. And I haven't felt like someone desires me in a really long time.
:( poor sad and sexless me.