Slightly frustrated
So earlier today, I got into with my dad (big surprise). He came home, and he asked if I had called about my car, and I said no. With a whole lot of attitude, he says, "Don't you think you should?" And I told him, "Well I will, but can you at least give me a minute? I barely woke up and showered." So then he spiraled off about why I didn't wake up early to get things done and that the house is dirty (mind you that he makes the mess in the house, since I'm hardly home. I usually am only home to sleep, and my room isn't even dirty.). I'm like, well, I'm not gonna wake up early, when it's the first day in a while that I don't have to because I don't have something to do today. So anyway, he was pissed and I think he expected me to get up and start doing things, but I didn't. I just finished getting ready and I left at the same time that D did for work. I decided to come to work and I brought my school things and stuff I need to do for church and some personal things I need to get done. I didn't say anything to my dad about where I was going or that I wasn't going back, I just left.
It was obvious that D was upset, because he's tired of hearing all the fighting and he doesn't see eye to eye with my parents, which is very understandable since they basically treat me like a kid still and try to be controlling (although they don't treat anyone else that way). Anyhow, D has been wanting to leave for a really long time already, and every time something like this happens, he automatically goes back to that idea of leaving. However, I know that if he leaves before October like we had originally planned, there will be some bad blood between him and my parents, and of course, I don't want that since they're my parents and he will be my husband soon, so obviously they're gonna be stuck in each others lives for as long as we're married. But D doesn't really care, because he's tired of being under them and going through the crap we go through. I think he maybe doesn't understand that that's how my parents are, and they're too old and stuck in their ways to change. They're stubborn. It's just not going to happen.
D called on his break, and I told him that I would prefer if he just stuck it out since it would eliminate the possibility of any ill-willed feelings among them, and he said that he's really going to have to think about things because he's more than likely going to move out if he can find someone to stay with where he doesn't have to spend too much money on rent. He obviously doesn't want to spend tons on rent, since we're trying to save to have something when we get married. So I'm not sure what is going to happen with all of this. All I know is that I can't wait for October 22nd to roll around because this shit is getting very old.
It was obvious that D was upset, because he's tired of hearing all the fighting and he doesn't see eye to eye with my parents, which is very understandable since they basically treat me like a kid still and try to be controlling (although they don't treat anyone else that way). Anyhow, D has been wanting to leave for a really long time already, and every time something like this happens, he automatically goes back to that idea of leaving. However, I know that if he leaves before October like we had originally planned, there will be some bad blood between him and my parents, and of course, I don't want that since they're my parents and he will be my husband soon, so obviously they're gonna be stuck in each others lives for as long as we're married. But D doesn't really care, because he's tired of being under them and going through the crap we go through. I think he maybe doesn't understand that that's how my parents are, and they're too old and stuck in their ways to change. They're stubborn. It's just not going to happen.
D called on his break, and I told him that I would prefer if he just stuck it out since it would eliminate the possibility of any ill-willed feelings among them, and he said that he's really going to have to think about things because he's more than likely going to move out if he can find someone to stay with where he doesn't have to spend too much money on rent. He obviously doesn't want to spend tons on rent, since we're trying to save to have something when we get married. So I'm not sure what is going to happen with all of this. All I know is that I can't wait for October 22nd to roll around because this shit is getting very old.