Re: un informed 13 year old?foleyolioJune 22 2005, 03:16:44 UTC
well, i understand what you are saying. but i also have to disagree.
i went to the same type of school that you did and in no way was i sheltered from any of this. that does not mean however that i was informed.
maybe i don't mean uninformed but misinformed. and i'm not going to get into crazy details on this (because this is the internet and anyone can read it -- even though few of you actually know me) but i was 'seduced' by someone older when i was 13. i say seduced because i lied to him and told him i was older and was what i believed to be terribly in love with him. however, he was 19 and had absolutely no right to take any sexual interest in me. but he did. and although this is me, and my situation, which does not make it the same as the one with this young man i understand perfectly well what it feels like to be that girl and to think you know what you are doing and saying and agreeing to and then while it is happening it does not seem or feel like what you thought you consented to. but, it's too far gone to stop it at that point. I don't think it is grey. That man, if i can call him that, took advantage of me. and again, i know it may not be the same but i have to admit a bias on this. that sexual encouter was one to change the direction of my life and landed me in a situation that no 13 year old should ever be in and i had to make some very grown up, adult decisions that i never should have had to make in the first place. there, i said it -- i'm biased.
there is something wrong with a 17 year old who has to fuck a 13 year old. 13 year olds are sexual to other 13 year olds. when you get over 16 it just gets creepy.
i went to the same type of school that you did and in no way was i sheltered from any of this. that does not mean however that i was informed.
maybe i don't mean uninformed but misinformed. and i'm not going to get into crazy details on this (because this is the internet and anyone can read it -- even though few of you actually know me) but i was 'seduced' by someone older when i was 13. i say seduced because i lied to him and told him i was older and was what i believed to be terribly in love with him. however, he was 19 and had absolutely no right to take any sexual interest in me. but he did. and although this is me, and my situation, which does not make it the same as the one with this young man i understand perfectly well what it feels like to be that girl and to think you know what you are doing and saying and agreeing to and then while it is happening it does not seem or feel like what you thought you consented to. but, it's too far gone to stop it at that point. I don't think it is grey. That man, if i can call him that, took advantage of me. and again, i know it may not be the same but i have to admit a bias on this. that sexual encouter was one to change the direction of my life and landed me in a situation that no 13 year old should ever be in and i had to make some very grown up, adult decisions that i never should have had to make in the first place. there, i said it -- i'm biased.
there is something wrong with a 17 year old who has to fuck a 13 year old. 13 year olds are sexual to other 13 year olds. when you get over 16 it just gets creepy.
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