a little problem...
-right, so i'm all relocated to ma, looking to get into school, looking to get a job, looking for some new friends. thumper_montoya has been trolling local forums and yahoogroups for people, and lo and behold, we found a few looking for a d&d game and all at the same time...so we exchange a few emails, invite them over, and it works out wonderfully. we all take to each other immediately...except for one tiny problem. one of the members of our new d&d group is...frustrating. he's not a bad guy...he's enthusiastic about the game and the group and isn't really a mean person or anything... but he's weird. and loud. and annoying to deal with. he's seems to have a difficult time with staying focused, paying attention, and sitting still. he's sometimes a little argumentative. this doesn't make him a bad person...i'm not without my own faults. i'm very quickly losing patience with him and the situation, however, and it's making me feel very bad...like i'm being a hypocrite. like my own flaws are somehow more excusable than his. i'm frustrated as hell with him, and i feel like i'm a horrible person for it. i really don't know what to do.