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[hollis8102]

I don't know what to do. I'm hysterical. I have never lost a family member before. Much less one that's 15 and passed suddenly. She was like the sister I never had. We grew up together. I just talked to you the other day, and now, your gone. Just like that. I can't stop crying...your just a baby...I don't understand why you had to go away...how

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[v_nezza]

So I was really excited to see an entry of yours on my friends page! Then it isn't something good :( I am very very very deeply sorry for your loss.
I can say, "i know how you feel," but the thing is, I don't. And I'm not going to lie. I can only try to understand. I know what it is like to be in a great deal of emotional pain, and I know how hard it is to get through. In this situation (and this might not apply/work for everyone) I would cry until my tears run dry...and trust me, they will. Crying is healing to me, its calming.

I have a friend my age. She recently lost an extremely close family friend. She died of a siezure at age five during gym class. My friend cried the whole school day when she found out. Today, she is back to her normal self. Yes, she had to suffer through the funeral, and yes, she probably still thinks about it, but she has probably come to grips with the fact that there is nothing she can do now, and that this little girl is in a wonderful place!

I have many friends that have recently lost immediate family members (dads in particular) If you would like to talk, I could tell you about them, and how they got through it.

Everyone deals with loss differently, but as far as I know, it is always something one can get through. I will pray for you and your friend! I hope everything goes well. Take care ;) Good luck
♥VaneSsa♥
P.S. I really hoped that helped and didn't come out as all mumble jumble! ;)