Mar 25, 2007 16:38
After 2 months of dating the same guy, commitment and all, it is now over.
Brian casually told me after dinner Friday night, that he wasn't ready and that the reality of his last relationship ending has just started to dawn on him and that he has emotionally shut down. Translation: You were the rebound guy.
After he just said this speech, all I could say was: Okay, well you gotta do what you gotta do. Translation: You're a fucking piece of shit asshole.
What surprises me is that how someone can convince me to get rid of my commitment issues and actually gamble on someone in the worst situation. Meanwhile, San Francisco is crawling with single guys. I, of course, had to pick someone who was on the tail end of a relationship.
I then proceeded to place all his belongings in a garbage bag and handed it to him. all I could say was, "Just like that?" which was then responded by a weak, "I'm sorry". It was then followed by a view of the back of his head as he walked away.
Lessons learned:
Keep away from people who currently have boyfriends.
You cannot plan a future with someone whose past is his present.
And lastly: even while in a relationship, do not let go and eat everything you want cause you never know when you'll be back in the market again. Thank God, I didn't.
NEXT!