SELFISH FAMILY MATTERS
So my grandma had surgery yesterday, the one with schizophrenia ... my mom gave up gaurdianship of my grandma, she had this for 20 years and now its my uncle and aunts turn to take over. They are complaining that my mom gave it up, that my mom spent money, that my mom did all this stuff that they didnt do at all and they have to do now because my mom wont touch it. Its totally understandable why she gave it up. M mom has not had a life in years. She always has to worry about her side of the family. Hell when you get disconnected from your own kids they should understand that mybe we want our mom. I WANT MY MOM, i dont want to see her slaving over paper work for months anymore. They are so upset over having to come visit 4 times a year, they werent there to sell things, take people to the hospital, they got to run around and have fun and have their own life. Their life has nothing to do with my grandma or taking care of her, but my entire life my family has taken care of everyone! my great grandma lived with us, NOT my aunt or uncle, my grandpa was always with us, seeing us, they saw him ONCE a year. My grandpa had tons of serious VERY serious surgeries, my mom was there to take him and take care of him afterwards. WHO the hell makes the plans in my family? MY MOM. her brother and sister finally take the responsibility that they shound have taken years ago, and sharing it by the way, and they want to bitch! its only been a couple months! They act as if its such a burden... Im sure my mom would LOVE to give them the file cabnets of paper work and things to sign. FUCK them. Im so sick of their complaining bout this. If they want to complain about coming to michigan then send her to their state. But they wont do that, they dont want anything to do with it. They want to yell about this and throw a hissy and they sure as hell will be the first to complain but not to step up. My aunt is a spoiled brat, her husband is rich so therefore she gets whatever she wants, if she wants to complain about the trips then she should stop traveling to NY twice a year and to everywhere else all the time. My uncle just moved and bought a new house he borrowed money from GGma and never paid her back, but he was sure as hell the first to want things and want a cut of her belongings. THOUSANDS of dollars... and THEN my mom still had to pay on the funeral, MY MOM not anyone else. Oh and grandpas headstone, yea my aunt and uncle said that it was my moms responsibility. When they realized it wasnt happening they bought it themselves but it took them 6 years after he died to finally do it.
In the end all i have to say is that i dont want anything to do with my family after everyone passes away and i have kids. My immediate family is all that i care about and a couple cousins. I dont care about anyone else. They choose to put everything EVERYTHING on my family. They dont want to have anything to do with anyone anyways. I just dont care anymore. I want to actually see my mom happy and not having to deal with the courts for her mom and paying money out or writing bills and doing papers anymore. 20 years, since before i was born she was doing this... its about time that i actually have my family dealing with what goes on JUST with us and not anything else.
I love my grandma and i hope shes doing well in the hospital but i dont blame my mom for being upset at her siblings. I dont one bit. They can do all of this now. I dont care that their in different states, that was their choice, they knew this was going to happen. We're done.
In the end all i have to say is that i dont want anything to do with my family after everyone passes away and i have kids. My immediate family is all that i care about and a couple cousins. I dont care about anyone else. They choose to put everything EVERYTHING on my family. They dont want to have anything to do with anyone anyways. I just dont care anymore. I want to actually see my mom happy and not having to deal with the courts for her mom and paying money out or writing bills and doing papers anymore. 20 years, since before i was born she was doing this... its about time that i actually have my family dealing with what goes on JUST with us and not anything else.
I love my grandma and i hope shes doing well in the hospital but i dont blame my mom for being upset at her siblings. I dont one bit. They can do all of this now. I dont care that their in different states, that was their choice, they knew this was going to happen. We're done.