life...it pretty much sucks
Life has been pretty busy lately. Sometimes I really wish things would just stay the same. I really do hate change sometimes. It seems that growing up is harder than I thought and that going to college really does change some people. It's like they get caught up in the everyday drama of other people's lifes. They feel the need to be corrupted. Love, can't say I've ever been in love, but I've always believed this quote "You can't help who you love or who you fall in love with." But I think you can help who you hurt and hurting friends is probably the worst thing ever I've realized. Friends I think, are supposed to be honest, trustworthy, reliable. Even if that honesty might hurt them, friends need to know things. People just need to learn to think before they act, actions speak very loudly and you need to think of who you might hurt in the process. Don't be so selfish. It's not really as hard as it seems. A little resposibilty here and there but that's what you do, it's life. You can't really live with out your friends, it's like living with out water or food, you'll die. Friends are your life.
"When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares."
On another note, I went to Ironwood yesturday for my sister's graduation. It was exciting. I actually was in wisconsin for about an hour, YES! I finally can say I have been out of michigan! pathetic, i know. We went to this really good restaraunt after the ceremony, it was eventful. Did some shopping while I was down there. It was fun. Nice to just get away for a while. Now that most of my friends are finally home from school and stuff, I'll have people to hang out with! yay!
"When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares."
On another note, I went to Ironwood yesturday for my sister's graduation. It was exciting. I actually was in wisconsin for about an hour, YES! I finally can say I have been out of michigan! pathetic, i know. We went to this really good restaraunt after the ceremony, it was eventful. Did some shopping while I was down there. It was fun. Nice to just get away for a while. Now that most of my friends are finally home from school and stuff, I'll have people to hang out with! yay!