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ok so i believe that in a friendship, each person is supposed to make an equal amount of effort to maintain the relationship. I have come to realize most of my relationships require me making most of the effort. If i dont call no one calls, if i dont say something to you on aim, pretty much no one says anything first. I am always the one who has to initiate plans and I am sick of it. I understand that we are in the school year again but that doesnt mean that you cant make an effort to hang out with your friends from time to time.
If you say you want to hang out, and then i say "yes i would like to, when?" Its your move to decide, if you intitiate. fucking follow through. I am sick of this. If you arent going to make any effort with me, consider us no longer friends. Its not fair to me and it makes me feel like you dont even care about the friendship. It feels like im the only who cares. ANd im tired of having those type of relationships in my life. This isnt for a specific person. This is for a bunch of people.
thats all.
If you say you want to hang out, and then i say "yes i would like to, when?" Its your move to decide, if you intitiate. fucking follow through. I am sick of this. If you arent going to make any effort with me, consider us no longer friends. Its not fair to me and it makes me feel like you dont even care about the friendship. It feels like im the only who cares. ANd im tired of having those type of relationships in my life. This isnt for a specific person. This is for a bunch of people.
thats all.