This isn't the type of thing you forget, and it's pointless to try. Emotionally traumatic events have ways of coming back to haunt you even many years later...I still get flashes sometimes of things that happened to me 25 years ago or more, and I'm sure you do also.
What counts is that you've forgiven, that you look to the future, and that you don't turn your bad flashback feelings into a permanent grudge against him. It's lucky for you that all those things are possible for you to do...some people never do get over such things and have no option except divorce.
You're welcome. And think about it...if it hadn't happened, your relationship probably wouldn't be at the level it is today, and also you might not have been able to give much help to Meg.
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What counts is that you've forgiven, that you look to the future, and that you don't turn your bad flashback feelings into a permanent grudge against him. It's lucky for you that all those things are possible for you to do...some people never do get over such things and have no option except divorce.
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