Frustrated

May 03, 2006 12:00

People always ask me why I am not talking to Jess when it's our time talk, and why I am not online or on the phone with her. I get sick of saying "she's grounded by her parents." It is so weird saying that (she's 18) people always look at me like "she's grounded, are you serious?!" I then have to explain to the person what her parents can be like ( Read more... )

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I feel the same... anonymous September 30 2006, 17:34:07 UTC
that's the problem I've been having since I became a teenager. My parents still treat me like a little girl that I am going to be fooled..even though I am 20!!!!!!!!!
They never, especially, my DAd!! always
give me passive, negative point of views about every single thing that I do!
I have dreams. But I cannot tell them..
"cause they are going to say that I am
too native or I am going to fail. x-D
I wanna be independent in a good way.
I wanna be responsible to myself.
but I always get disappointed and sad by them. thank God that He took me to America... He showed me a lot of things.
my brother is 23! and he is a loner locking at his room playing his pc games..
and he and I haven't had a proper conversation for ages. but my parents never did anything about it. It was Jesus
who helped me to overcome the fear to start to talk a little bit to my brother.
Lord~ I am frustrated.
Sometimes I got confused I don't know whether I overact and not satisfied or it's thier fault. x-D I found they're unware of what they do...they feel pretty content being who they are and being in the situation. but my heart is dying and is shouting! x-D
ah sorry, I talked too much. Hope Jess is fine!!!!! Hope her parents will see the truth one day~

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Re: I feel the same... hieros7 October 1 2006, 00:21:36 UTC
Parents tend to have trouble letting go of their kids sometime. Most especially with girls, they tend to think of them as being very vulnerable. :-)

This is was an old comment. She is living here in Michigan now and is going to school down the street from me. :-p So things are a little different, and yes, she is doing well.

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