Peoples Opinions?

[hidekowin]

Hideko: I have a question for you oh wise one.
How do you handle an opinion that shits on your brainwaves?

Jay: You have 2 options: 1) fold like a tin can under a fat man because of it. 2) Understand its not your view, give it up and love the person regardless of how it made you feel. (I really need to learn to take my own advice D:)

Hideko: Hmm...I'

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[osumyunihiko]

Did something happened?

[hidekowin]

Well, there are certain opinions that get to me sometimes. Even without people saying.
Stuff on personal subjects. Like for instance. I can't understand how so many people can hate someone for loving someone in a way that is not accepted by modern society.
I understand both sides of the story when it comes to that. I know I used to go along with the crowd because I wanted to be accepted, but I learned that you can love anyone despite gender differences.
I don't see why people can hate another person for loving someone else just because they have different parts downstairs.
Someone cannot help if they love another person truly. And so many people of the same sex do better in relationships than the straight majority.

There are other opinions that bother me too like people who put me down for not indulging in substances with them like and "adult" should.
I am not for alcohol or drugs, but I really am bothered by the peer pressure of it.

[osumyunihiko]

Oh my, you are having really hard time.
Really don't know what to say, you wrote so much,
but I am speechless right now....
Be strong, I think as long as you believe in what you are doing
everything has to be OK....even this is so hard.....

[hidekowin]

Yes, it is very hard, but I'm trying.
I'm trying to be positive even if people have opinions against mine, but sometimes it slows me down in going after my goals.
I want to be able to not care if someone has an opinion against mine. I don't really even know why it bothers me. Maybe it is a type of fear that the person would harm me or my friends for not agreeing, because people that hurt others, usually hurt others because of a clashing opinion.:/

[osumyunihiko]

That feeling "what are you doing? think what others think of you" is so killing us >_> I don't know from where it came, coz my parents really didn't learn it to me, but I have that feeling and it is so stopping me
when I want to do something not ordinary..... >_>
it seems that country has no meaning, in whole world existing the same problems, aish....

[hidekowin]

Aish is definitely a good word to use for this situation -__-;

Sometimes I believe the world has gotten more hateful, the longer we live on this earth.
There is no safe place, even if we want to be completely comfortable, someone will always try to stop us from being free.

And this is an obstacle that I want to jump over and to run away from it. I want to be a strong person and not care if someone disagrees with me on what I want to do or what makes me happy.

[osumyunihiko]

Well.... In my opinion this civilization came to it's end.....
soon really something big will happen and that "something big" will change everything.
And other thing - I think you are living in city, right?
This is the worst place to live, believe me. I know that there are good things, but if people want to live peaceful, he/she has to somewhere where so many nature, so little mechanisms like PC or Tv...
That's why when my art preview will be over I will go tu my village and spent all my holidays there~ I am sooooo waiting that time~

Sorry, if I write everything so bad, I am still learning English~

[hidekowin]

Yeah, I have a feeling this world is coming to an end :(. So many peopl don't think so, and they think everything will be fine, but it's obvious something is wrong, even nature is telling us.

I feel like doom is sneaking up behind us ready to attack us an cover our mouths so we do not cry for help.

I really want to leave the city, but I still have not accomplished what I need here. When I finish my work, I want to leave and move to a more peaceful and respectful place.
I ultimately want to move somewhere in South Korea.

Your English is very good by the way! :)

[osumyunihiko]

We can count - almost all civilizations had about 2000 years~
So we really are seeing our end~

I am seeking living in nature becoz of artist life~
Just see - almost all big masterpieces were done in silent and abandoned places, in villages, in nature~ Gosh, I so wanna that~

Lolz, your plans so big, to live in S.Korea. Why Korea?
It seems that S.Korea is so popular nowadays, but there are even more people than in other countries~ Well, I don't wanna say nothing bad~
Just in my opinion, little places are better~ Well....for me, coz I don't like attention, he he~~

^_^ V

[hidekowin]

Yeah, it really does seem that way, I worry about it, but I know that it won't be the end for every single person on this earth, but it will be the end for almost everyone

[osumyunihiko]

I know so little about Korean culture, I was so obsessed with Japanese culture almost five years, and only last years found Korean one, so I just know something about Korean music~~ So, I think that was stupid of me, to say what I said about Korea, sorry~~

Gosh, you have so many talents~~~~ Not even drawing or making plushes or hats but creating music, too~~~ I so wish I could feel the music.....But I even can't play the piano ToT so cruel....

[hidekowin]

Oh I used to be very into Japanese culture too about 5 years ago! For some reason I got more interesting in Korean as time went by though, of course, I couldn't live without both cultures haha.
But it's okay, I understand what you mean :)

I have always loved music and art and just everything artistic my whole life so...I would make myself study.
You really have to meditate with music to create, sometimes you have to be in complete silence to do it, but maybe you would do better with a different instrument if piano is very hard for you, although I will admit piano is a bit more challenging than guitar for me, although guitar hurts the fingertips and wrist more!

Piano can be very demanding of your brain because you are using both hands and practically playing two different melodies.
It helps to play parts of a song over and over until you master that one part of the song, from there, it will get easier, but you have to have a LOT of patience :) it's totally worth it though if you can be dedicated ^^

[osumyunihiko]

I still like Japanese culture with all anime/manga and j-rock, he he he~
Well, traditional culture, too~ of course, just if we are talking about nowadays pop-culture, especially music-world, S.Korea has really bigger fandom or what can I call it~ All singers not only sing, but play in movies/dramas and participate in TV shows and so on, Japanese singers alittle bit more private, he he~

This is not like I can't play piano at all.... I have two of them in my home, just i don't have an ear on music, it is so hard for me to feel right rhythm..... But my mum always saying that with hard work I can do everything~ huh, it is easier do that say it, right?~
And guitar is totally a cosmos for me,my brother is playing it, but I can't.... maybe I give up too fast on it?~

Lolz, sorry for spaming your entry~~