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i swear this is my last entry before i go on haitus for exams.
if you dont want to get abandoned, the best thing to do is to abandon others first.
when you abandon someone, you create for yourself an image. one of 'coolness', one of detachment. in societies today, this would gain 'worshippers' from all around, because of your image. you appear like you dont care, and people believe you. but deep inside, so many things are taking place.
abandoning someone is never an easy task. first of all, it means destroying all the trust that person put in you to begin with. which leaves you with no one to trust, and no one to trust you. secondly, it means ending your friendship, almost on the point of no return.
no one wants to get abandoned. it's a painful experience. imagine if one day someone walks up to you and says: 'hey. i think we should quit being friends' and just walks away like that. how would you on the receiving end feel?
but then again, if you dont want to get abandoned, abandoning others first would be the best thing to do. because that leaves you friendless, and gets rid of the possibility that that one friend might abandon you.
sometimes, this is reality, but people refuse to face it. so that when their worst hidden fears come true, they are frightened and run to a corner to hide. but as we all know, hiding never solves anything. the best thing to do is to pick ourselves up and start over.
i must stop posting such stuff. it's making me myself depressed -.-
haha >< guess who's who (:
if you dont want to get abandoned, the best thing to do is to abandon others first.
when you abandon someone, you create for yourself an image. one of 'coolness', one of detachment. in societies today, this would gain 'worshippers' from all around, because of your image. you appear like you dont care, and people believe you. but deep inside, so many things are taking place.
abandoning someone is never an easy task. first of all, it means destroying all the trust that person put in you to begin with. which leaves you with no one to trust, and no one to trust you. secondly, it means ending your friendship, almost on the point of no return.
no one wants to get abandoned. it's a painful experience. imagine if one day someone walks up to you and says: 'hey. i think we should quit being friends' and just walks away like that. how would you on the receiving end feel?
but then again, if you dont want to get abandoned, abandoning others first would be the best thing to do. because that leaves you friendless, and gets rid of the possibility that that one friend might abandon you.
sometimes, this is reality, but people refuse to face it. so that when their worst hidden fears come true, they are frightened and run to a corner to hide. but as we all know, hiding never solves anything. the best thing to do is to pick ourselves up and start over.
i must stop posting such stuff. it's making me myself depressed -.-
haha >< guess who's who (: