Shitty..
So we're having issues with the lending. When i went in initially and gave her all my info she said that all we'd need to pay when we close is our downpayment and that would be due about 4 or 5 days prior to closing. Okay, cool. We can do that. Apparently we also have to cover closing costs (which she had initially said is usually included in the offer) ..but apparently it wasn't in the offer and now we're responsible for that to.
So we're supposed to have over 10,000 by the end of January.. ?? If so.. then we can't get the house. We can't do that.
I feel so stupid right now. I keep telling our realtor and our lender that they need to help me figure this stuff out..
I'VE NEVER BOUGHT A HOUSE! YOU NEED TO TELL ME THIS SHIT!
I keep asking both of them for just something written out explaining what is what and how we do it.. and all they say is that they I can call them anytime. Well that's great and all but I WON"T REMEMBER EVERYTHING!
I'm getting frustrated, annoyed and wondering if my misunderstanding is all my fault. I keep asking questions over and over and I get so damn confused! How am I supposed to understand everything if every time I ask a question, they say not to worry about it?
I don't know what to do. Nick is getting pissed because he said he thought I had everything figured out.. which I thought I did..
But seriously.. why is everything on my shoulders?!? Why can't they just SEND ME SOMETHING that says "this is $xxx and is due ___, This is $xxx and is due ___" HOW THE HELL IS THAT DIFFICULT?!?
So we're supposed to have over 10,000 by the end of January.. ?? If so.. then we can't get the house. We can't do that.
I feel so stupid right now. I keep telling our realtor and our lender that they need to help me figure this stuff out..
I'VE NEVER BOUGHT A HOUSE! YOU NEED TO TELL ME THIS SHIT!
I keep asking both of them for just something written out explaining what is what and how we do it.. and all they say is that they I can call them anytime. Well that's great and all but I WON"T REMEMBER EVERYTHING!
I'm getting frustrated, annoyed and wondering if my misunderstanding is all my fault. I keep asking questions over and over and I get so damn confused! How am I supposed to understand everything if every time I ask a question, they say not to worry about it?
I don't know what to do. Nick is getting pissed because he said he thought I had everything figured out.. which I thought I did..
But seriously.. why is everything on my shoulders?!? Why can't they just SEND ME SOMETHING that says "this is $xxx and is due ___, This is $xxx and is due ___" HOW THE HELL IS THAT DIFFICULT?!?