Erica is completely right and amazingly bold to feel the way she does, and to say what she did. And as a friend, you should have to "sugarcoat" things at times, not be a dick. And giving your own advice can be put into a supportive way as to not be a dick. Friends are not dicks. You. Were just a dick to your friend. And if I'm not mistaken, this entry is "doing it for herself". She is pulling out of being sad and upset and she is going to be happy. She is going to move on. That is doing something. However, "sitting and waiting for something to happen" would be what your every word is trying to suggest. Completely being okay with things being bad is to sit and wait, because unhappiness never lasts. There is always a lull in the melodramatic teen-angst that everyone goes through. Even if it's small.
Listen to Frou Frou - "Let Go" And cheer the fuck up.
This comment has no hate in it. And I haven't seen or talked to you since like, 5th grade. But I know that no matter what, not supporting your friends in something as simple as being happy, is not what you're supposed to be doing. And again, I don't dislike you. I don't even know you. That's all. And I'm sorry if any of this made anyone mad.
I don't understand how you can comment to argue and not piss anyone off. But seeing as I am already in a terrible mood, you have only added to it.
The only reason I said she shouldn't wait around for things to happen is because of what she said: "...I’m better off without attempting to pursue relationships because I’m fine with being alone forever until the day I turn 28"
Quite frankly, if this happens and she turns 28 and is still alone, I don't know if she will be okay. And I meant that she shouldn't just wait for people to walk into her life, because things don't always happen that way.
And I have supported Erica through many things. And I think everyone should stop attempting to tell me how to be a friend, because I seem to have been doing it for the past eight years.
Erica is completely right and amazingly bold to feel the way she does, and to say what she did.
And as a friend, you should have to "sugarcoat" things at times, not be a dick. And giving your own advice can be put into a supportive way as to not be a dick.
Friends are not dicks.
You. Were just a dick to your friend.
And if I'm not mistaken, this entry is "doing it for herself".
She is pulling out of being sad and upset and she is going to be happy. She is going to move on.
That is doing something.
However, "sitting and waiting for something to happen" would be what your every word is trying to suggest.
Completely being okay with things being bad is to sit and wait, because unhappiness never lasts. There is always a lull in the melodramatic teen-angst that everyone goes through. Even if it's small.
Listen to Frou Frou - "Let Go"
And cheer the fuck up.
This comment has no hate in it.
And I haven't seen or talked to you since like, 5th grade.
But I know that no matter what, not supporting your friends in something as simple as being happy, is not what you're supposed to be doing.
And again, I don't dislike you.
I don't even know you.
That's all.
And I'm sorry if any of this made anyone mad.
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The only reason I said she shouldn't wait around for things to happen is because of what she said: "...I’m better off without attempting to pursue relationships because I’m fine with being alone forever until the day I turn 28"
Quite frankly, if this happens and she turns 28 and is still alone, I don't know if she will be okay. And I meant that she shouldn't just wait for people to walk into her life, because things don't always happen that way.
And I have supported Erica through many things. And I think everyone should stop attempting to tell me how to be a friend, because I seem to have been doing it for the past eight years.
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It was a comment to speak.
And that is all.
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