girl/guy rant
I don't do this very often seeing as I really don't give a shit but I've about had enough of girls and guys bitching and moaning about each other.
Girl View:
A girl falls in love with a guy she's known for a couple of years. He tries to be a toatl hard ass all the time but she's knows different. She stares at him when she thinks no one will notice. She gets annoyed to see other girls being airheads around him. She sees the softer side of his macho facade. She feels for him all the time. She knows about his past... not to much, but enough that she worries for him. She would do anything to see him smile, something he does so rarely. She thinks he cares for her on a deeper level but he is scared to be hurt, and tied down. SHe dates other people because she is unsure about his feelings. She thinks she cares for him much more than he cares about her.
Guy View:
Guy falls for a girl he's known for a couple years. He's a total hardass and she has no idea. He glances at her just to make sure no one else is. He gets a bit fired up when someone talks to her who is not him. He knows that she's a bit tortured even though she would never show that on her "perfect" surface. He knows what she does to unwind, he's seen her truly relax, if only for a brief moment. He knows that he can make her smile by pushing her buttons. He knows that she cares for him, but he has no idea how to handle the situation because he's unsure of his feelings. He knows he cares for her but...
Outside perspective:
These two people met a few years ago and care for each other. She's bailed him out. He's sucked up his emotions to make her happy. They get mad when there are members of the opposite sex are around the other person. They try not to show it but it's a hard thing to hide. They know how to get to each other and they get to each other all the time. When it comes down to it they will be there for each other in a pinch. No one knows the extent of their relationship and what they share, not even them.
Advice ladies and gents?
Quit hiding your feelings. If someone you care for doesn't care for you wouldn't you rather know so you can move on? Yeah it hurts when it doesn't work out but the hurt fades. If you care about each other enough you can still be friends. And, if they care about you, you've lost nothing.
Any comments
Girl View:
A girl falls in love with a guy she's known for a couple of years. He tries to be a toatl hard ass all the time but she's knows different. She stares at him when she thinks no one will notice. She gets annoyed to see other girls being airheads around him. She sees the softer side of his macho facade. She feels for him all the time. She knows about his past... not to much, but enough that she worries for him. She would do anything to see him smile, something he does so rarely. She thinks he cares for her on a deeper level but he is scared to be hurt, and tied down. SHe dates other people because she is unsure about his feelings. She thinks she cares for him much more than he cares about her.
Guy View:
Guy falls for a girl he's known for a couple years. He's a total hardass and she has no idea. He glances at her just to make sure no one else is. He gets a bit fired up when someone talks to her who is not him. He knows that she's a bit tortured even though she would never show that on her "perfect" surface. He knows what she does to unwind, he's seen her truly relax, if only for a brief moment. He knows that he can make her smile by pushing her buttons. He knows that she cares for him, but he has no idea how to handle the situation because he's unsure of his feelings. He knows he cares for her but...
Outside perspective:
These two people met a few years ago and care for each other. She's bailed him out. He's sucked up his emotions to make her happy. They get mad when there are members of the opposite sex are around the other person. They try not to show it but it's a hard thing to hide. They know how to get to each other and they get to each other all the time. When it comes down to it they will be there for each other in a pinch. No one knows the extent of their relationship and what they share, not even them.
Advice ladies and gents?
Quit hiding your feelings. If someone you care for doesn't care for you wouldn't you rather know so you can move on? Yeah it hurts when it doesn't work out but the hurt fades. If you care about each other enough you can still be friends. And, if they care about you, you've lost nothing.
Any comments