Hey, it's not MY "abusive relationship self help crap". The sites I gave him were universal definitions of abusive/controlling relationships. Also, how am I supposed to talk to you when I never come in contact with you? And why should I if I'm just giving Danny advice? I hardly ever butt in on your relationship with him, but when I do, I try to make it constructive and to-the-point. And how do you know my advice isnt objective and altruistic? You really dont because you're not there when I talk to Danny. Once again, Danny has the right to talk to me about his life and I have the right to give him my input. I'm still not sure why you're labeling my advice as flawed and illogical, because you still dont know what advice I give him. Like I said, if those websites apply to your situation, then there's a problem and you work to fix it, if it doesn't apply, then no harm done, right? You can just forget about it if I was wrong. It isnt an insult to Danny, it was a genuine act of help/guidance, and I dont believe I was wrong in offering it. As for the sentence not making grammatical sense, I dont know what you're talking about. It makes perfect sense if you read it right. Take the first part "I never really assume" which means exactly what it says and the second part "exactly what happens..." which means I dont assume how your relationship is to its foundations, I only assume/question some things that I undeniably hear.
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