relationships....
i've learned today, to have a relationship with someone and have it be successful......both "parties" have to be willing to do things they dont want to do, and make changes for eachother. i saw this quote once.. and it seemed to fit some things today "Love isn't about finding the perfect person but learning to see an imperfect person perfectly" everyone needs to learn to give people a chance, everyone makes mistakes... but just dont give them too many chances, espically if its something like abusive or cheating..one thing i know i've learned... if you want to love someone, you have to be willing to take everything that comes along with them too. not one is perfect. today i learned that without tyler, i dont know what i would do. he's so important to me, and i care so deeply about him. i don't think i've cried as much in just two days (NOT EVEN WITH BILL OR COREY!!) as i did with him.. when you find someone that is a great person, don't let them go. don't even let them let you go. i'm not even totally sure where i stand with him, but i know i will fight for him. another thing i've learned, you need to really trust people, don't flip out over very little thing. don't get mad over every little thing. you've got to trust someone, otherwise a relationship doesnt work. i know i have a hard time trusting people sometimes, and its something i am working on. if you know where i previously come from, you'd kinda understand. and lastely.. which i learned a long time ago, never ever let your friends come between you and your boyfriend... "chicks before dicks" "bros before hos" never let anyone come between you and your friends..... or you and your relationship with your "lover"