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In order to get a better understanding, I had to take the quiz twice to get a better representation of who I am.



the Peacemaker

Test finished!

you chose BX - your Enneagram type is NINE.

"I am at peace"

Peacemakers are receptive, good-natured, and supportive. They seek union
with others and the world around them.

How to Get Along with Me

• If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially
  don't like expectations or pressure.



• I like to listen and to be of service, but don't take advatage of this.
  



• Listen until I finish speaking, even though I meander a bit.



• Give me time to finish things and make decisions. It's OK to nudge
  me gently and nonjudgmentally.



• Ask me questions to help me get clear.



• Tell me when you like how I look. I'm not averse to flattery.



• Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings.



• I like a good discussion but not a confrontation.



• Let me know you like what I've done or said.



• Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life.

What I Like About Being a Nine

• being nonjudgmental and accepting



• caring for and being concerned about others



• being able to relax and have a good time



• knowing that most people enjoy my company; I'm easy to be around



• my ability to see many different sides of an issue and to be a good
  mediator and facilitator



• my heightened awareness of sensations, aesthetics, and the here and
  now



• being able to go with the flow and feel one with the universe

What's Hard About Being a Nine

• being judged and misunderstood for being placid and/or indecisive



• being critical of myself for lacking initiative and discipline



• being too sensitive to criticism; taking every raised eyebrow and twitch
  of the mouth personally



• being confused about what I really want



• caring too much about what others will think of me



• not being listened to or taken seriously

Nines as Children Often

• feel ignored and that their wants, opinions, and feelings are unimportant
  



• tune out a lot, especially when others argue



• are "good" children: deny anger or keep it to themselves
  

Nines as Parents

• are supportive, kind, and warm



• are sometimes overly permissive or nondirective

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy

Discover the 9 Types of People

HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages

You are not completely happy with the result?!

You chose BX

Would you rather have chosen:

AX (SEVEN)

CX (TWO)

BY (FOUR)

BZ (FIVE)

My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:

You scored higher than 25% on ABC

You scored higher than 31% on XYZ

Link: The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test

the Adventurer

Test finished!

you chose AX - your Enneagram type is SEVEN.

"I am happy and open to new things"

Adventurers are energetic, lively, and optimistic. They want to contribute
to the world.

How to Get Along with Me

• Give me companionship, affection, and freedom.



• Engage with me in stimulating conversation and laughter.



• Appreciate my grand visions and listen to my stories.



• Don't try to change my style. Accept me the way I am.



• Be responsible for youself. I dislike clingy or needy people.



• Don't tell me what to do.

What I Like About Being a Seven

• being optimistic and not letting life's troubles get me down



• being spontaneous and free-spirited



• being outspoken and outrageous. It's part of the fun.



• being generous and trying to make the world a better place



• having the guts to take risks and to try exciting adventures



• having such varied interests and abilities

What's Hard About Being a Seven

• not having enough time to do all the things I want



• not completing things I start



• not being able to profit from the benefits that come from specializing;
  not making a commitment to a career



• having a tendency to be ungrounded; getting lost in plans or fantasies
  



• feeling confined when I'm in a one-to-one relationship

Sevens as Children Often

• are action oriented and adventuresome



• drum up excitement



• prefer being with other children to being alone



• finesse their way around adults



• dream of the freedom they'll have when they grow up

Sevens as Parents

• are often enthusiastic and generous



• want their children to be exposed to many adventures in life



• may be too busy with their own activities to be attentive

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy

Discover the 9 Types of People

HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages

You are not completely happy with the result?!

You chose AX

Would you rather have chosen:

BX (NINE)

CX (TWO)

AY (EIGHT)

AZ (THREE)

My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:

You scored higher than 70% on ABC

You scored higher than 31% on XYZ

Link: The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test