"Aren't you sick of holding onto those old grudges? Today you need to realize that it's okay to let go -- closure can be overrated. Are you keeping this event or person in your emotional bank account in the hopes that someday you can cash it in for a sense of revenge? That's no reason for it to take up valuable space in your heart. Get rid of the bad energy or memories by turning toward the future and not looking back. Make room in your heart for the new, positive forces coming your way."
This is funny because I spent a lot of time thinking this morning about how odd it is that I hang onto things in my past that are painful, not because I can't forgive other people, or I hold grudges - I really don't. I can forgive anyone almost anything, but it's almost impossible for me to forgive myself. So I hold onto things and keep poking myself with them over and over.
I guess I should try to stop.
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