when is it time to grow up and move on?

[hellonwheels104]

i had one of those conversations today that really makes you think about your life. where will we be in a few months? a few years? will the same people still be around us? will they still stand every part of our being? and if they can still stand us, are they the people we want to be surrounded by? the ones that you let walk all over us? the ones that we say we cannot live without? can we really not live without them? or do we just not fancy the thought?

when is it alright to be a doormat? when do you stick up for yourself? where can i buy a backbone?

i dont think i have ever seen a soul so in despair.