So, Nick has asked/suggested that I move in with him until i move to england...and i really want to...but i'm not sure if it's the best thing...but i really want to...i don't know what to do
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lol, that's okay that you don't pay attention all the time...I don't either;)
I'm going to England in February to Roehampton University until June.
I'm living with Ani, my sis, right now. For about a week. I asked her what I should do, and she was very against me moving. She thinks that living together adds stress on a relationship etc, etc. But she's comparing Nick and I to John and her and there's a big difference in relationships. I understand all her reasons though.
The reasons I want to move in with him are that I'm falling in love with him and I miss him and I loved living with him. Plus, I already stay about 4 out of 7 nights over there anyway and it's closer to work.
I'm not sure all the reasons he wants me to move in with him, but he's definitely said he misses me when I'm not there, and he liked living with me. I just don't know how he feels about me...and I'm afraid he's wanting the "no strings attached" friends with benefits that we kinda agreed to earlier and he wants to keep it that way. He may be stringless, but I definitely am not. Not anymore. But why would you be friends with benefits that live together? That doesn't really make sense...I don't know...It just makes me nervous....
I'm going to England in February to Roehampton University until June.
I'm living with Ani, my sis, right now. For about a week. I asked her what I should do, and she was very against me moving. She thinks that living together adds stress on a relationship etc, etc. But she's comparing Nick and I to John and her and there's a big difference in relationships. I understand all her reasons though.
The reasons I want to move in with him are that I'm falling in love with him and I miss him and I loved living with him. Plus, I already stay about 4 out of 7 nights over there anyway and it's closer to work.
I'm not sure all the reasons he wants me to move in with him, but he's definitely said he misses me when I'm not there, and he liked living with me. I just don't know how he feels about me...and I'm afraid he's wanting the "no strings attached" friends with benefits that we kinda agreed to earlier and he wants to keep it that way. He may be stringless, but I definitely am not. Not anymore. But why would you be friends with benefits that live together? That doesn't really make sense...I don't know...It just makes me nervous....
I'm a dweeb..I know...
Hence, I'll take all the advice I can get.
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