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Having some weirdly intense problems with my ex-bf of almost... 10 years now. Ahh...
He friended me on fb, so I friended him back because I wanted to be normal with him. But I didn't talk to him... just responded to his friend request.
He started leaving weird/awkward comments on my fb, which I ignored.
Yesterday he suddenly left 15. 15 messages in a row on my status and it was so annoying that a few of my friends urged me to block him.
I did, then he sent me an angry message why I blocked him. I replied and pretended I forgot who he was and told him I took him off because he was being creepy. I was hoping it would offend him just enough to stop talking about me...
But instead, he replied with about... I couldn't really count, but it was about 5 pages long of information about what he's been doing about his life, riddled with stuff about me. On top of that, he replied to his own messages correcting mistakes he made or adding on comments.
He. is. SO. WEIRD.
On top of that, he apparently bothered my mom to complain to her about me, told me it was great that I dumped him because it inspired him to compose an album, compared my name to his current gf, and all sorts of weirdddd stuff I couldn't be bothered to read through. My friends who read it with me said he sounds incredibly mentally unstable and that I shouldn't reply to the message, or that I should tell him I'll call the police on him. Hahaha. I think it sounds too far-fetched to involve police, but the problem is that he's already stalked me for about 5 years, and I've had teachers AND friends all tell me to be careful. Idk. I thought he was fine now, but he's doing the exact same thing to me as when we were 14. JEBUS.
He's also friended me back again. I don't know what to do exactly. I'm really bad at being direct when I'm uncomfortable.
He friended me on fb, so I friended him back because I wanted to be normal with him. But I didn't talk to him... just responded to his friend request.
He started leaving weird/awkward comments on my fb, which I ignored.
Yesterday he suddenly left 15. 15 messages in a row on my status and it was so annoying that a few of my friends urged me to block him.
I did, then he sent me an angry message why I blocked him. I replied and pretended I forgot who he was and told him I took him off because he was being creepy. I was hoping it would offend him just enough to stop talking about me...
But instead, he replied with about... I couldn't really count, but it was about 5 pages long of information about what he's been doing about his life, riddled with stuff about me. On top of that, he replied to his own messages correcting mistakes he made or adding on comments.
He. is. SO. WEIRD.
On top of that, he apparently bothered my mom to complain to her about me, told me it was great that I dumped him because it inspired him to compose an album, compared my name to his current gf, and all sorts of weirdddd stuff I couldn't be bothered to read through. My friends who read it with me said he sounds incredibly mentally unstable and that I shouldn't reply to the message, or that I should tell him I'll call the police on him. Hahaha. I think it sounds too far-fetched to involve police, but the problem is that he's already stalked me for about 5 years, and I've had teachers AND friends all tell me to be careful. Idk. I thought he was fine now, but he's doing the exact same thing to me as when we were 14. JEBUS.
He's also friended me back again. I don't know what to do exactly. I'm really bad at being direct when I'm uncomfortable.