Can love die? Well, yes and no. If it was really there in the first place, it can be shocked out of existence, covered over by time, transferred in its intensity to others who are more relevant to our lives at present, or any of a myriad of possibilities. Does this mean the love died or that we transferred our love elsewhere? What does this say about the nature of love? I suppose it is everyone’s task to decide for themselves the answer to this question.
I think the only way in which love matters is when we feel it. As it is a feeling, it can only be experienced when we feel it. Simply being loved by others is not enough. Only the love we feel is real to us. It is great when those we love, love us too, but it is not their love that is most significant to us, it is our love for them. Therefore when we stop feeling love for someone, love for that person has died for us. Sometimes that is sad.
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