(Untitled)

[heathyre25]

How do I stop being in love with him? I made myself put a stupid personal ad up and all I do is compare everyone to him. I can't stop. I don't know how to not love him. Everytime I see him, he touches me, or something reminds me of him, I find myself wanting him more. Make the pain go away. It hurts so deeply.

Comments

[invisiblegirl2]

Hi, I found your post through the hubby_trouble friends page. Ive been through this too. It really sucks, and it really hurts.

There really is no way to rush through it and stop loving him. The best way to deal with it is to give it time.

It took me seven years to truly get over my college love.

I *still* have occasional pangs of pain and hurt over the guy who was probably the single most influential, life changing relationship of my life. In part, I think deep in my heart I will always love him in some small, private way even though I know that it is best that we are not together anymore.

I do not - I cannot regret loving any of the men I had relationships with. They helped to make me who I am.

*Hugs*

[heathyre25]

Your words mean more to me than anything I have heard recently. Thank You