THAT'S IT!
Finally, I've made sense out of all of this. All of my boys have something in common other than me. Oh I feel much better knowing I'm jumping from one side of the spectrum to the other successfully. I feel SO MUCH BETTER! This is much better. I can go to sleep thinking about how they are all the same and I've seen them all. There isn't a new type or a new boy that won't be like other boys. I feel so much better. :)