How honest can you be?
In society, many people look at the outside of someone. Whether that person has high self-esteem or low self-esteem, it doesn't matter. What matters is how honest you are to yourself. If you're not honest to yourself, how in the heck can you be honest with other people? My teacher always told me, "life is always going to throw you a curve ball, it's how you handle it that's important." People today grow up in a society, where everyone is pressured by the media, by peers, by "perfection." Guess what. Reality check; there is NO perfection in this world. It's impossible to achieve. Yea, somebody may have the intellect or the body or both, but the only thing that is important is that person's heart. There are always people that can be so incredibly beautiful, and they have the coldest and cruelest heart; and THAT makes them ugly. You look at the "big" or "fat" girls, and they are shunned from their peers, because they're not thin. Face another reality check guys....Give those girls a chance, because more than likely, they will have the most beautiful heart, anyone could ever experience. And if you're lucky enough to see it and to experience such kindness, don't hide from it, run, or block it; it can be such a beautiful thing IF you let it. To me, those girls are the most beautiful; they're voluptous, curvy, sensual, and most of all damn sexy! And that is an awesome power to have. If YOU feel sexy and sensual that is all that matters, and if guys won't give you a chance, then screw them. They don't know the true meaning of love and respect. So, take a good look at yourself in the mirror, and realize you are so incredibly SEXY!