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[heatherdesiree]

I've been trying all week to post but LJ has thwarted my attempts each time. Granted, it was probably the crappy govt firewall stopping me but I'll blame LJ since they don't pay me

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[forsaken]

I, personally, think girls can be harder to live with. At least with guys, you can get pissed and that's okay and forgiveable. Living with women was constantly trying not to and totally failing by inadvertaintly giving offense. Then, with a group of girls, they'd all team up on each other. It was horrible drama.

You could always try to act like nothing weird has happened. Just be nice and see if that works. If not just leave her alone. A lot of times when someone extends kindness- whatever else was there is rapidly forgiven.

Take Amanda and I. At one point I viciously hated her. (Or thought I did) but time made it seem stupid and then she stood up for me about something, regaurdless of the fact that I didn't deserve it from her.Then I realized I just loved her and that can be painful- when someone you love hurts you.

I'm not trying to lecture though or judge. Just sharing my own experiences. Whatever you do will be ok. You're a better judge of you than anyone!

Also, asthma sucks. I had a friend with chronic asthma once. Like almost died on me, made me nearly piss myself, asthma attacks.

Do you need an inhaler or just the allergy meds?

[heatherdesiree]

I'm mixing both. It seems to work. I can't be sure if it's chronic until everything dies and there's no more pollen. Ask me again in January. =)