Well the thing is I've never really HAD body issues. I mean... I don't ENJOY being fat but for the most part it's just because of the things I can't do. Like, I can't run very far or fast without being out of breath, I can't jump for SHIT... I'm not a very active person (at all) but I hate that when I WANT to do stuff (like running around playing with my siblings) I'm lucky if I make it 100 meters without having to slow to a jog.
I want to be HEALTHIER and in better shape, but as for being FAT the only thing that really bothers me is how hard it is to find clothes. There are places with clothes that fit wonderfully (Like Layne Bryant) but those are expensive ass clothes and I can't afford them. If you're not between a 6 to 12 its nearly impossible to find cheap clothes that fit right.
Doesn't help they seem to not expect fat girls to have a figure. You have no idea how annoyed I get when the tops my size are made for chicks with flat chests. I mean... who is a size 16 with small tits? Really?! And then with the jeans, i've got the big ass but I don't have the fat lower-tummy so my pants end up coming up to my damn belly button in the front if they cover my ass in the back.
It's really my only REAL issue with my body, how damn complicated being fat makes clothes shopping. I'd kill to be an 8 where I can just grab anything on the rack and KNOW they've got my size (cause they ALWAYS have a size 8 in EVERYTHING).
Although I'd probably still be a 10 even if I was 'skinny' just based on my body, lmao.
i understand the healthier aspect. i've lost over 100 pounds, and still can't do sit-ups. i can run now, though and that's a big deal to me. it takes a lot of work to be healthy.
and as for being a flat chested size 14... *raises hand* b cup, right here. i lost all my boobs, they were the first thing to go. :*-(
have you tried low-rise stretch jeans with lycra in them? i have some rider brand jeans from wal-mart. they're great.
The jeans I used to wear when I was a 12 were riders and they were pretty nice. The ones I have now are supposed to be made for a big ass (low rise with the gapless back) and they still are annoyingly high in the front.
Lol, with my genetics there's no way in hell I could ever be flat chest. I was a C-cup when most of the other girls were just starting to get boobs. Mine probably won't get much smaller, honestly. I always had my friends tease me because when I laid down they didn't flatten out ANY and they used to joke about how my boobs were fake (it was all just in fun, not really teasing).
And it's really not much help for the running part either, lol. I can't afford to buy a sports bra made for someone with bordering on DDD (SO hard to find bras when you're between DD and DDD... especially when its nearly impossible to find anything under a 40 in DD or DDD) so running isn't much fun, lmao.
Idk, i'm 75lbs overweight and I honestly don't want to lose that much (Idk where the fuck it would come from, lol. I'm fat but idk about THAT fat)... but at this rate I'm never gonna lose. I have the trend of eating healthy and not losing ANYTHING, then I'll say 'fuck it' and eat what I want and lose a TINY bit of weight, then decide 'well if I eat healthy THIS TIME it'll help!' and either nothing happens or I gain it back... it makes no sense so after I gained 15lbs and have been stopped here for about a year, I've given up and don't even bother.
... saddest part is, I've lost 5 pounds since I gave up about a month back and started eating more... I seriously, SERIOUSLY give up, dude, lmao.
Pisses me off more that I'm friends with lucky bastards that eat their bodyweight daily, don't move their asses from their chairs, and stay skinny, lmao.
I want to be HEALTHIER and in better shape, but as for being FAT the only thing that really bothers me is how hard it is to find clothes. There are places with clothes that fit wonderfully (Like Layne Bryant) but those are expensive ass clothes and I can't afford them. If you're not between a 6 to 12 its nearly impossible to find cheap clothes that fit right.
Doesn't help they seem to not expect fat girls to have a figure. You have no idea how annoyed I get when the tops my size are made for chicks with flat chests. I mean... who is a size 16 with small tits? Really?! And then with the jeans, i've got the big ass but I don't have the fat lower-tummy so my pants end up coming up to my damn belly button in the front if they cover my ass in the back.
It's really my only REAL issue with my body, how damn complicated being fat makes clothes shopping. I'd kill to be an 8 where I can just grab anything on the rack and KNOW they've got my size (cause they ALWAYS have a size 8 in EVERYTHING).
Although I'd probably still be a 10 even if I was 'skinny' just based on my body, lmao.
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and as for being a flat chested size 14... *raises hand* b cup, right here. i lost all my boobs, they were the first thing to go. :*-(
have you tried low-rise stretch jeans with lycra in them? i have some rider brand jeans from wal-mart. they're great.
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Lol, with my genetics there's no way in hell I could ever be flat chest. I was a C-cup when most of the other girls were just starting to get boobs. Mine probably won't get much smaller, honestly. I always had my friends tease me because when I laid down they didn't flatten out ANY and they used to joke about how my boobs were fake (it was all just in fun, not really teasing).
And it's really not much help for the running part either, lol. I can't afford to buy a sports bra made for someone with bordering on DDD (SO hard to find bras when you're between DD and DDD... especially when its nearly impossible to find anything under a 40 in DD or DDD) so running isn't much fun, lmao.
Idk, i'm 75lbs overweight and I honestly don't want to lose that much (Idk where the fuck it would come from, lol. I'm fat but idk about THAT fat)... but at this rate I'm never gonna lose. I have the trend of eating healthy and not losing ANYTHING, then I'll say 'fuck it' and eat what I want and lose a TINY bit of weight, then decide 'well if I eat healthy THIS TIME it'll help!' and either nothing happens or I gain it back... it makes no sense so after I gained 15lbs and have been stopped here for about a year, I've given up and don't even bother.
... saddest part is, I've lost 5 pounds since I gave up about a month back and started eating more... I seriously, SERIOUSLY give up, dude, lmao.
Pisses me off more that I'm friends with lucky bastards that eat their bodyweight daily, don't move their asses from their chairs, and stay skinny, lmao.
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