i'm feeling cynical again.
Okay, like... why do i feel like there are SO few people out there in this world that aren't stupid shits? Or assholes? Or whores?
Okay... i'm not like my friends. I'll be honest, i dont think you necessarily have to wait until your married to have sex. Mainly, i believe that cause i dont ever wanna get married, but i very much dont plan on being a virgin my whole life.
But on the other side, i DO believe sex is a big deal. I dont understand how people can have casual sex. I dont understand how people can have unsafe sex. I dont get how people can start having sex when they're like... 12 or 14 or something! Do you know most people i know had sex before they were 16? Do you also know, most of the virgins i know are boys, despite popular belief? I mean, idk. There are so many sex things that most people of society are so fucking wierd about. Okay, i can't imagine having sex before you graduate highschool. I probably believe this just because the teenage pregnancy rate in my area is disgustingly high.
And as for casual sex, just... how can that be a casual thing? I dont- i just cant understand people who have one-night stands, or like... just sleep with someone for sex. I mean, i'm not a prude at all. Trust me, but sleeping with someone just because you wanna get laid is like... disgusting!
Also tied in to casual sex, cheating! Okay, how on earth can anyone cheat on their significant other? I know a guy who slept with his best friends girlfriend just because she was hot and offered. How can you do that? First off, casual sex- ew... but then, you KNOW this girl has a boyfriend! Even if its not your best friend. Even if you dont KNOW her boyfriend, how could you sleep with someone knowing you're helping them cheat?
i'll be honest... i think about 90% of all the people i know are dirty whores. Like i said, i never want to get married, and i'm not saying i'll only ever sleep with one guy in my whole life...
But i wont be one of these chicks who dates someone for a week then has sex with them. Society makes it out where everyone puts out on the first date. Thats like... the steryotype that, sadly, a lot of people i know LIVE by! Screw that. Call me a prude about it, but i dont think you should sleep with someone you dont love. Even if its not like... 'forever and ever' true love, if you dont at least care deeply about someone, you shouldn't sleep with them.
I know a girl who is seventeen. When she was fifteen, she met this dude one night and started dating. Two DAYS later, she lost her virginity to him, then in the following two weeks, they did it like bunnies, then she dumped him. Since then, she has slept with 7 guys, only 5 of which she even dated! AND on top of that, she's sucked more dicks than most hookers.
And she actually asked me 'you dont think i'm a slut, right?' after someone called her a whore... sure... you sleep with that many guys in 2 years and most of them, only after a few days of knowing them?!? PSH! WHATEVER!
And like, you hear about people who are like... 20 years old and have slept with/did sex-related stuff with like... 30 people!
... i can't imagine doing stuff with 30 people in my whole LIFE!
It just... idk. It makes me look down on society. And then like... people make it sound like a GOOD thing to be having one-night stands every weekend!
I'll be honest, its sad when most of my non-slutty friends are guys. I know guys who dont believe in sex before marriage, i know guys who like me, dont believe in sleeping with someone you dont love, and i know guys who have said NO to sex, just because they dont want to be man-sluts...
i know like... MAYBE 4 girls who i can say the same about.
People actually REFUSE to believe my best friend is a virgin because she and her boyfriend hang out at his house watching movies instead of going out, they've been dating a year, and he's 22. My own MOTHER doesnt really believe that a 22 year old guy would date a girl for a year without getting sex from it. Hell, she once said something about how my cousin and his girlfriend were lying about both being virgins because 'an 18 year old boy is definately getting it somewhere, psh, no way are they not fucking!'
... i know that, basically, that's true in most cases... but its sad that people wont believe the few and proud who DONT want to be dirty whores.
Hell, in the 9th and 10th grade, Britney dated a guy named Adam for about a year and a half, and girls at school were talking about who might possibly still be virgins, and they were like 'we know Britney's not!' and she was like '... um... yeah i am!' and they just rolled their eyes at her.
...It's sad when 15 year old girls refuse to believe anyone who's had a boyfriend longer than six months HAS to have fucked him.
I'll tell it like it is, Britney's only ever had 2 hickeys. One from each boyfriend. She like... doesnt let her boyfriend kiss her neck even... and they've been together a YEAR... she JUST got where she can say the word 'sex' without blushing.
It's pathetic that society is to the point where there are more teenage parents at my school than their are teenagers who have never done anything sexual.
We tried to estimate how many girls in our year might possibly be virgins... and we came up with about 8 out of everyone we knew. We came up with like... 16 boys, and 8 girls...
there are like... 12 girls in our grade who are either pregnant or have a kid already and no telling how many boys, cause generally, boys at our school date girls from other schools, and girls from our school date guys who are WAY too old for them!!!
... the fact that there are so many pregnancies at my school is sad. You know not that many condoms break, so you know they just dont USE them... so you also know there are probably a zillion STDs going around this city faster than the common cold!!!
... yeah... i totally went into THAT rant for the 9 BILLIONTH time!!!
*this was spurred on by learning that a dude i know slept with his best friend's girlfriend... when he KNEW she was his best friend's girlfriend!!! His defense was 'well, she's hot and she offered, i'm not gonna say no, am I?!?'
Okay... i'm not like my friends. I'll be honest, i dont think you necessarily have to wait until your married to have sex. Mainly, i believe that cause i dont ever wanna get married, but i very much dont plan on being a virgin my whole life.
But on the other side, i DO believe sex is a big deal. I dont understand how people can have casual sex. I dont understand how people can have unsafe sex. I dont get how people can start having sex when they're like... 12 or 14 or something! Do you know most people i know had sex before they were 16? Do you also know, most of the virgins i know are boys, despite popular belief? I mean, idk. There are so many sex things that most people of society are so fucking wierd about. Okay, i can't imagine having sex before you graduate highschool. I probably believe this just because the teenage pregnancy rate in my area is disgustingly high.
And as for casual sex, just... how can that be a casual thing? I dont- i just cant understand people who have one-night stands, or like... just sleep with someone for sex. I mean, i'm not a prude at all. Trust me, but sleeping with someone just because you wanna get laid is like... disgusting!
Also tied in to casual sex, cheating! Okay, how on earth can anyone cheat on their significant other? I know a guy who slept with his best friends girlfriend just because she was hot and offered. How can you do that? First off, casual sex- ew... but then, you KNOW this girl has a boyfriend! Even if its not your best friend. Even if you dont KNOW her boyfriend, how could you sleep with someone knowing you're helping them cheat?
i'll be honest... i think about 90% of all the people i know are dirty whores. Like i said, i never want to get married, and i'm not saying i'll only ever sleep with one guy in my whole life...
But i wont be one of these chicks who dates someone for a week then has sex with them. Society makes it out where everyone puts out on the first date. Thats like... the steryotype that, sadly, a lot of people i know LIVE by! Screw that. Call me a prude about it, but i dont think you should sleep with someone you dont love. Even if its not like... 'forever and ever' true love, if you dont at least care deeply about someone, you shouldn't sleep with them.
I know a girl who is seventeen. When she was fifteen, she met this dude one night and started dating. Two DAYS later, she lost her virginity to him, then in the following two weeks, they did it like bunnies, then she dumped him. Since then, she has slept with 7 guys, only 5 of which she even dated! AND on top of that, she's sucked more dicks than most hookers.
And she actually asked me 'you dont think i'm a slut, right?' after someone called her a whore... sure... you sleep with that many guys in 2 years and most of them, only after a few days of knowing them?!? PSH! WHATEVER!
And like, you hear about people who are like... 20 years old and have slept with/did sex-related stuff with like... 30 people!
... i can't imagine doing stuff with 30 people in my whole LIFE!
It just... idk. It makes me look down on society. And then like... people make it sound like a GOOD thing to be having one-night stands every weekend!
I'll be honest, its sad when most of my non-slutty friends are guys. I know guys who dont believe in sex before marriage, i know guys who like me, dont believe in sleeping with someone you dont love, and i know guys who have said NO to sex, just because they dont want to be man-sluts...
i know like... MAYBE 4 girls who i can say the same about.
People actually REFUSE to believe my best friend is a virgin because she and her boyfriend hang out at his house watching movies instead of going out, they've been dating a year, and he's 22. My own MOTHER doesnt really believe that a 22 year old guy would date a girl for a year without getting sex from it. Hell, she once said something about how my cousin and his girlfriend were lying about both being virgins because 'an 18 year old boy is definately getting it somewhere, psh, no way are they not fucking!'
... i know that, basically, that's true in most cases... but its sad that people wont believe the few and proud who DONT want to be dirty whores.
Hell, in the 9th and 10th grade, Britney dated a guy named Adam for about a year and a half, and girls at school were talking about who might possibly still be virgins, and they were like 'we know Britney's not!' and she was like '... um... yeah i am!' and they just rolled their eyes at her.
...It's sad when 15 year old girls refuse to believe anyone who's had a boyfriend longer than six months HAS to have fucked him.
I'll tell it like it is, Britney's only ever had 2 hickeys. One from each boyfriend. She like... doesnt let her boyfriend kiss her neck even... and they've been together a YEAR... she JUST got where she can say the word 'sex' without blushing.
It's pathetic that society is to the point where there are more teenage parents at my school than their are teenagers who have never done anything sexual.
We tried to estimate how many girls in our year might possibly be virgins... and we came up with about 8 out of everyone we knew. We came up with like... 16 boys, and 8 girls...
there are like... 12 girls in our grade who are either pregnant or have a kid already and no telling how many boys, cause generally, boys at our school date girls from other schools, and girls from our school date guys who are WAY too old for them!!!
... the fact that there are so many pregnancies at my school is sad. You know not that many condoms break, so you know they just dont USE them... so you also know there are probably a zillion STDs going around this city faster than the common cold!!!
... yeah... i totally went into THAT rant for the 9 BILLIONTH time!!!
*this was spurred on by learning that a dude i know slept with his best friend's girlfriend... when he KNEW she was his best friend's girlfriend!!! His defense was 'well, she's hot and she offered, i'm not gonna say no, am I?!?'